I understand that both of you strongly feel that you are right.
I am more interested in how we can past all of this. We don't have these problems often. When these do occur, they are often a misunderstanding. Sometimes, even the most honest of intentions cannot be communicated over the internet.
The best forum or community is where no one ever feels the presence of authority. This is my ideal and a standard I strive to hold myself to and instill in our community.
Now, you guys can either fight this out till judgment day or simply try to find ways to promote cooperation and understanding in the future.
Praet, thanks for chiming in. I guess you're very serious since you're not using your smileys.
I am not (figuratively) filing a complaint, but I did warn financeguy that I would not tolerate his further vulgarities used directly at me. As for his complaint, that's for you to judge. I think this thread has presented the evidence fairly objectively.