alpha56789 wrote:
bostonsparky wrote:
and also give you a decent window of un-interrupted, nothing to compete with conversation.
Just a female perspective here:
A friend of mine and I (both mid-20s females) detest those chatty seatmate pick-up attempts. We've even joked about wearing ipod headphones visibly without a player, just to see if people get the hint after our third polite "I'll let you get back to your book" or "I need to get some work done, please excuse me."
Airports drive me nuts. Pick-up attempts when you get your ticket, pick-up attempts when you go through security, pick-up attempts when you board, pick-up attempts at your seat!
Trust me, guys. Let her do the talking. She will if she's interested. And no, it doesn't matter if you're at H/S/W. The women worth having don't care.
PS. This is advice about relationships, not hooking up. The skanks are easy to spot, and a simple wave of a platinum card will do the trick in seconds.
Where are you ??
You seem to belong to the breed of women , who are self - driven, have a lot of self - respect, ''the tough to please -on-the-outside-but easy-when -reached-into the inside (heart)'' types.
Good Luck with finding the right man.
PS 1: The above line was never intended to be a ''pick up '' line
PS 2 : Just to add a male perspective : Most men would not have the patience to study women and ''prepare'' to make them feel that they (Men) are the ''right'' ones. I 'd say women should come half way even , when they believe they have ''seen'' someone good. After all we are neither preparing for gunning the GMAT and nor working to make the right ''FIT'' for the B-School .
Good Luck with finding the right man.
Regards.