michaelk8 wrote:
There are some things other than your credentials, things you can't control at all, that play into the decision making process. Bottom line is that when you hit submit you should be hopeful of course but realize this is an extremely competitive process and be ready for a rejection. There are no guarantees in life...As long as you see it as their loss, you are fine - I worry for those who beat themselves up. If you have spent your life doing all those amazing things you mentioned then I think GSB should be worried, and not you. You will be successful no matter what.
Wise words michaelk8. I applied to H/S/W in 2010 and again to H/S in 2012. 760 GMAT / top 10% GPA / IB and Biz Dev experience at large companies / Lots of extracurriculars including co-founding a small organization and Board positions on multiple non-profits. I was interviewed at Stanford and waitlisted at Wharton the first try and outright dinged from Harvard and Stanford my second time around. At the time, I was absolutely crushed and devastated. In some sick, convoluted way, it was almost as though I needed to get into school to feel my successes were validated. No one can take your achievements away from you and if you happen to be in the 99.9999999% of the world population that does not get into Stanford, then that does not make you any less successful.
The reality is, admissions committees make decisions on very little information. They are looking for "check boxes" and if for some reason your application deviates even the slightest, or if your recommender checked off "top third" on one attribute instead of "top 5%", or if the admissions person was simply sleepy/cranky/tired the day they reviewed your file, then it may just very well be that the stars aren't aligned and it wasn't meant to be. As michaelk8 said, in many ways, things are out of your hands and you just need to hope for the best.
The irony is my career has taken off as a result of not going back to school. I've been promoted a few times and will be receiving full funding to do an EMBA if I choose to. You just never know what the future holds...and in some cases you might just be better off than you think.