and the answer:

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My first task is to "translate" the poetry from the headstone into practical terms:

"Boyhood" can stand for pre-adolscent childhood; he spent one-sixth of his life in this period.

"Youth while whiskers grew" can stand for pubescence (the teenage years, into young adulthood); he spent one-twelfth of his life in this period.

"Ere marriage began" can stand for "unmarried adulthood" or "bachelorhood"; he spent one-seventh of his life in this period.

He had five years between the wedding and the time his first child was born.

Tragically, this child died young, living only half as long as his father eventually would; looked at the other way, half of Diophantus' life was spent while his child was alive.

Diophantus died four years after burying his child.

I will let d stand for Diophantus' age at death. Then:

childhood: d/6

adolescence: d/12

bachelorhood: d/7

childless marriage: 5

age of child at death: d/2

life after child's death: 4

His whole life had been divided into intervals which, when added together, give the sum of his life. So I'll add the lengths of those periods, set their sum equal to his (as-yet unknown) total age, and solve: Copyright © Elizabeth Stapel 2000-2011 All Rights Reserved

.d/6 + d/12 + d/7 + 5 + d/2 + 4 = d

( 25/28 )d + 9 = d

9 = d – ( 25/28 )d

9 = ( 3/28 )d

84 = d

Diophantus lived to be 84 years old.

You can check the answer if you like, by plugging "84" into the original problem. If he lived to be 84, then one-sixth of his life is 14 years, one-twelfth of his life is 7 years (so he'd be 21, and he certainly should have a beard by this age), one-seventh of his life is 12 years (so he didn't marry until he was 33 years old), his child was born when he was 38, the boy died at 42 (when Diophantus was 80), and then Diophantus died four years later.

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