{"id":28843,"date":"2015-05-31T13:33:06","date_gmt":"2015-05-31T20:33:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/?p=28843"},"modified":"2015-05-31T13:33:07","modified_gmt":"2015-05-31T20:33:07","slug":"recommenders-and-recommendations-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/recommenders-and-recommendations-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Recommenders And Recommendations"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_31081\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-31081\" style=\"width: 239px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/info.accepted.com\/MBA\/Five-Fatal-Flaws\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-31081 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/barack-obama-thumbs-up-239x300.jpg\" alt=\"Download &quot;5 Fatal Flaws to Avoid in your MBA Application Essay&quot;\" width=\"239\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-31081\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">A recommendation from someone with power is not half as good as a recommendation from someone who knows you well.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Some applicants have this idea that if they can just get their company CEO, whom they have never met, to write their <a href=\"https:\/\/www.accepted.com\/mba\/letters-of-recommendation.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">business school recommendation<\/a>, then the admissions committee will cower in awe and immediately accept them.\u00a0 It\u2019s not a new idea; applicants have asked me every year for the last ten years if they should choose <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/2012\/02\/20\/the-president-wrote-my-letter-of-recommendation\/\">high-level people<\/a> as recommenders.\u00a0 The short answer is no.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the longer answer.\u00a0 There are two simple rules for choosing recommenders:\u00a0 You should choose people who know your work very well, and you should choose people who will write the recommendations themselves (with your guidance).<\/p>\n<p><strong>What makes a recommendation bad?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The typical bad recommendation, the kind written by someone who does not know you well (like a CEO), is full of assertions about what a good person you are but gives no evidence to back up those assertions.\u00a0 It\u2019s a generic write-up full of platitudes that does not help you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What makes a recommendation good?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A great recommendation, on the other hand, is written by someone who knows your work very well, someone who can go beyond simple assertions to give examples of impressive contributions that provide evidence of your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.accepted.com\/admissions\/leadershipessay.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">leadership skills<\/a> and teamwork ability and business acumen.\u00a0 People who know you well can often write great stories of your work that you had completely forgotten or taken for granted.\u00a0 They write about what was important to <em>them<\/em>, and therefore they give great third-person points of view about your candidacy to the admissions committee, which is exactly what the committee wants.\u00a0 So again\u2014choose people who know your work well.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Who should recommend you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Typically, this means that your recommender should be a supervisor, a colleague, or a client.\u00a0 Do <em>not<\/em> choose someone who simply has a big title or happens to be an alumnus of the school, thinking that this will carry weight with the admissions committee, because that person will write something generic that will not help you.\u00a0 Only if this big titleholder or alumnus knows your work very well should you choose them.<\/p>\n<p>Also, try to select a <em>range<\/em> of recommenders\u2014ones who have seen you in different situations\u2014so that they all don\u2019t end up saying the same things about you or using the same stories.\u00a0 For example, choosing your supervisor and that person\u2019s supervisor is rarely a good strategy, because they\u2019ve seen you work on the same projects from the same point of view.\u00a0 The admissions committee wants views of you from different angles; they do not want the same point of view given two or three times.<\/p>\n<p><b>Should you write your own recommendations?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Do not write your own recommendation if you can avoid it.\u00a0 Seriously.\u00a0 Put aside the likelihood that the admissions committee will recognize your writing style and discount the recommendation accordingly: the problem is that if you write your own recommendation, you\u2019ll just write things you already know about yourself, or repeat things from your essays\u2014and as I said above, it\u2019s a recommendation that brings out <em>new<\/em> things about you that works well.<\/p>\n<p>Now, you do want to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.accepted.com\/mba\/lettersrec.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">guide your recommenders<\/a>; you want to tell them you\u2019re applying to business school, tell them your goals, remind them of successful projects you\u2019ve worked on together, and suggest to them that they write about your business-related skills rather than your technical-related skills.\u00a0 You can even write an outline or a series of bullet points for them to serve as helpful reminders and save them some time.\u00a0 In these ways, you can influence the recommendation process.\u00a0 But really, they should write the recommendation in their own hand, in their own style, with their own thoughts.\u00a0 Someone who takes the time to write your recommendation is someone who believes in you and your candidacy; you can draw your own conclusions about someone who does not want to take the time.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/info.accepted.com\/MBA\/Five-Fatal-Flaws?utm_campaign=blogcta&amp;utm_medium=MBA5FF&amp;utm_source=CTA\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-23258 size-full aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/MBA-5-Fatal-Flaws.jpg\" alt=\"MBA 5 Fatal Flaws\" width=\"350\" height=\"130\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.accepted.com\/aboutus\/ToddKing\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-8104\" title=\"R. Todd King\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/rtoddking.jpg\" alt=\"R. Todd King\" width=\"70\" height=\"70\" \/><\/a> By <a href=\"https:\/\/www.accepted.com\/aboutus\/editors.aspx?editorid=40\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"author\">R. Todd King<\/a> an MIT MBA, who has worked with MBA applicants since 2001. Todd can help you make the most of your strengths and mitigate your weaknesses.<\/em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Related Resources:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u2022 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.accepted.com\/ecommerce\/mba\/lettersofrecommendation.aspx\">Letters of Recommendation that Rock!<\/a> - an ebook<br \/>\n\u2022 <a href=\"https:\/\/info.accepted.com\/mba\/where-you-should-apply\/\">Best MBA Program and How to Choose the Right One<\/a><br \/>\n\u2022 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.accepted.com\/resume\/tendos.aspx\">Ten Do's and Don'ts For Your Resume<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"gmail_default\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/2015\/05\/19\/u-s-news-most-selective-med-schools\/\" target=\"_blank\">\u200b\u200b<\/a><i><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/2015\/05\/28\/how-to-study-for-the-gre-part-i\/\" target=\"_blank\">This article<\/a>\u00a0originally appeared on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">blog.accepted.com<\/a>, the official blog of\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.accepted.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Accepted.com<\/a>.<\/i><\/div>\n<div class=\"gmail_default\">\u200b\u200b<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some applicants have this idea that if they can just get their company CEO, whom they have never met, to write their business school recommendation, then the admissions committee will&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,939,113,243],"tags":[967,518,1699],"class_list":["post-28843","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mba","category-accepted","category-applications","category-blog","tag-applying-to-business-school","tag-letters-of-recommendation","tag-mba-admissions-and-letters-of-recommendation","entry"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28843","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28843"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28843\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28844,"href":"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28843\/revisions\/28844"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28843"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28843"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28843"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}