{"id":38562,"date":"2017-08-02T12:21:33","date_gmt":"2017-08-02T19:21:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/?p=38562"},"modified":"2017-08-02T12:21:33","modified_gmt":"2017-08-02T19:21:33","slug":"flaws-make-you-real-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/flaws-make-you-real-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Flaws Make You Real"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/reports.accepted.com\/five-fatal-flaws-grad-school-statement-of-purpose\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-38563 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Flaws-Make-You-Real.jpg\" alt=\"Download the Free Guide Here to Learn the 5 Fatal Mistakes You Shouldn't Make in Your Application Essays! \" width=\"700\" height=\"315\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Flaws-Make-You-Real.jpg 700w, https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Flaws-Make-You-Real-300x135.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>A speaker recently told a story about traveling in Asia where he saw a stunning emerald. Enchanted by the stone\u2019s beauty, he decided to buy it. On the spot.<\/p>\n<p>He returned home and took the emerald to a jeweler for appraisal. The jeweler began to examine the stone through his magnifier, and as he did so, his face went pale.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat\u2019s the matter?\u201d asked the proud owner of the emerald.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI can\u2019t find a flaw.\u201d said the jeweler.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWonderful!\u201d said the stone\u2019s owner.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo, it\u2019s not. If it\u2019s flawless, it\u2019s a fake. A phony. It\u2019s not real. Nothing in the natural world is flawless.\u201d replied the jeweler.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThen find a flaw!!!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After a few more tense moments the jeweler found a small flaw, and the owner of the stone could again enjoy its beauty without worrying that he had been taken in by a piece of plastic masquerading as a gem.<\/p>\n<p>The adcoms are trying to appraise you through your essays. If they ask you about a <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/resilience-in-admissions\/\">flaw, failure, or weaknesses<\/a> and you fail to provide that proof of authenticity, then you will be a phony and fake in their eyes.<\/p>\n<p>Remember what the jeweler said: \u201cNothing in the natural world is flawless.\u201d Everything in nature has an imperfection, a flaw. Certainly human beings are wonderful proof of his point. But, the question becomes how do you handle yours? Do you deny they exist? Do you just throw up your hands and say, \u201cThat\u2019s me. Take it or leave it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If asked, don\u2019t hesitate to reveal a real weakness. Also, try to <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/writing-about-overcoming-obstacles-in-your-application-essays\/\">show how you have strengthened that area<\/a>, developed other talents to compensate, or grown as you dealt with and minimized your imperfection so that over time it has become much harder to see, perhaps imperceptible.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Get personalized advice that will help you write a \"weakness essay\" that impresses the adcom! <a href=\"https:\/\/www.accepted.com\/grad\/services\/consulting\">Click here to get started!<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/reports.accepted.com\/five-fatal-flaws-grad-school-statement-of-purpose\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-34534\" src=\"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/5-Fatal-Flaws-grad-school-1.jpg\" alt=\"Get Your Free Guide Here! \" width=\"700\" height=\"233\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/5-Fatal-Flaws-grad-school-1.jpg 600w, https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/5-Fatal-Flaws-grad-school-1-300x100.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.accepted.com\/aboutus\/LindaAbraham\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-8104\" title=\"Linda Abraham\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/Linda-Abraham-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"Linda Abraham\" width=\"70\" height=\"70\" \/><\/a>By <a href=\"https:\/\/www.accepted.com\/aboutus\/editors.aspx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Linda Abraham<\/a>, president and founder of Accepted and co-author of the definitive book on MBA admissions, <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/1KjUBeS\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">MBA Admission for Smarties: The No-Nonsense Guide to Acceptance at Top Business Schools<\/a><a>.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Related Resources:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u2022 <a href=\"https:\/\/reports.accepted.com\/from-example-to-exemplary-guide\">From Example to Exemplary<\/a>, a free guide to writing winning application essays<br \/>\n\u2022 <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/writing-about-overcoming-obstacles-in-your-application-essays\/\">Writing About Overcoming Obstacles in Your Application Essays<\/a>, a short video<br \/>\n\u2022 <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/resilience-in-admissions\/\">Resilience in the Face of Failure<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/flaws-make-you-real-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?hl=en&amp;q=https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/hec-paris-mba-essay-tips-deadlines\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1501754590991000&amp;usg=AFQjCNEcB_fPIs2P9hh8059B_dcjT1pMEQ\">This article<\/a>\u00a0<i>originally appeared on\u00a0<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?hl=en&amp;q=https:\/\/blog.accepted.com\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1501754590991000&amp;usg=AFQjCNF3HLGLU5XQMp2YwsCfWnU1UNPujw\">blog.accepted.com<\/a><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Applying to a top b-school? The talented folks at Accepted have helped hundreds of applicants get accepted to their dream programs. Whether you are figuring out where to apply, writing your application essays, or prepping for your interviews, we are just a call (or click) away.<\/p>\n<p>Contact us, and get matched up with the consultant who will help\u00a0<i>you\u00a0<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/hubs.ly\/H01gxJF0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?hl=en&amp;q=https:\/\/hubs.ly\/H01gxJF0&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1501754590991000&amp;usg=AFQjCNGb_oaFzyUZYILHc9bOD3_tCX4Crg\">get accepted<\/a>!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A speaker recently told a story about traveling in Asia where he saw a stunning emerald. Enchanted by the stone\u2019s beauty, he decided to buy it. On the spot. 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