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Essay questions dealing with failure, risk, mistakes, and difficult interactions or conflict often cause applicants to cringe, squirm, and bite their nails. After all, you want to show yourself succeeding and conquering the world in your essays and personal statements<\/a>, not falling down. But there\u2019s a reason why these questions are common. Schools want to see how you grow following a setback: Do you show resilience? Do you smile and try again? Do you view the stumble as temporary, move on, applaud your effort, and accept a helping hand when offered? Reading about setbacks is a way for the admissions committee to learn about your character.<\/p>\n Here are three tips to portray your setbacks as growth opportunities and occasions of achievement:<\/p>\n 1. Focus on how failures lead to successes.<\/strong><\/p>\n All humans make mistakes, and mistakes often lead to great things. You may accidentally stumble on a new idea or invention that you otherwise wouldn\u2019t have encountered, or you may grow and learn how to become a greater person from the failure or disappointment. Thomas Edison, the inventor and businessman who invented the light bulb and phonograph, once said about his scientific experiments, \u201cI have not failed. I\u2019ve just found 10,000 ways that won\u2019t work.\u201d Edison took his failures in stride and reframed them to pave his way to success. You should do the same!<\/p>\n TIP:<\/strong> Choose an experience for your essay where you experienced feelings of failure, disappointment, frustration, or inadequacy. Define your \u201cblew it\u201d moment, but use your \u201cfailure\u201d to demonstrate success<\/a>, accomplishment, resilience and character.<\/p>\n EXAMPLE:<\/strong> Perhaps you made a mistake in the lab that cost you weeks of work, but you learned something important about lab techniques, and now you\u2019ve become a more fastidious researcher as a result. (Note: this needs to go way beyond the normal trial-and-error nature of research.) Or perhaps your failure was personal: maybe you neglected an important relationship, and as a result of that loss, you\u2019ve made a point of treating people with particular respect.<\/p>\n 2. Focus on why<\/em> something went wrong.<\/strong><\/p>\n Another important theme of your essay should be a deep understanding of your negative experience. By discussing what went wrong and why it went wrong, you\u2019re showing the adcom that you don\u2019t just place blame on circumstances, but that you look for real answers and real solutions.<\/p>\n TIP:<\/strong> In your essay, reflect on the reasons behind your failure and the steps you took to avoid similar mistakes.<\/p>\n EXAMPLE:<\/strong> If you pushed to complete a work project resulting in resentment among colleagues, then you should write about the extra attention you now pay to the suggestions and efforts of your colleagues.<\/p>\n 3. Focus on what you\u2019ve learned from the experience on a personal level.<\/strong><\/p>\n Not only do your failures help you stay away from future failures, they also impact you as a person.<\/p>\n TIP:<\/strong> Write about the importance of owning up to your mistakes. The humility and maturity that accompany owning up to your error are excellent self-improvement qualities to highlight.<\/p>\n EXAMPLE:<\/strong> If you made a programming error, a client caught it, and you accepted responsibility for your actions, you can write about how you\u2019ve since implemented more stringent quality assurance protocols, and how you\u2019ve accepted that you need better QA \u2013 that you aren\u2019t infallible.<\/p>\n Of course, don\u2019t just talk about \u201cresilience.\u201d Demonstrate it through anecdotes that show you picking yourself up, improving, acknowledging effort, persisting, and ultimately succeeding in one way or another. By portraying these qualities in your essay, you will convince the adcom that you can indeed conquer the world, or at the very least pick yourself up after you stumble.<\/p>\n Not sure how to move forward with a failure-themed essay? Our consultants at Accepted can brainstorm with you on how to present your best self even in tough situations. Be in touch today!<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Related Resources:<\/b><\/p>\n \u2022\u00a0Leadership in Admissions<\/a>, a free guide![\"Example](\"https:\/\/gmatclub.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Example-to-exemplary.jpg\")
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\n\u2022\u00a0The Past Doesn't Define You<\/a>, a podcast episode
\n\u2022\u00a0Flaws Make You Real<\/a><\/p>\n