Re: "Proper" Extracurriculars
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25 Feb 2011, 17:42
HI ,
I can understand your predicament , How ever, let me tell you something - Fortunately Extra Curriculars are not like academics - to be forced Upon , a must and should things or things that would determine how much money you would earn !
And I strongly believe you should treat them more as passions , Interests, Cures to 'diseases' like boredom , Idle mind .
I know quite some people who Love Video Games , and there is nothing wrong with that , except that most Employers might see that more on the lines of An 'addiction' rather than a passion or a Hobby.
Next - As an ardent sports fan and Lover I would say , give yourself unto the sport you love and and spend some time and Enjoy IT. Trust me there is no better teacher than a sport - Victory , Achievement , Defeat , Despair, Motivation ,Praise , Criticism , Hero, Zero , Team work , Leadership and more - everything can be learnt from a sport.
Take Up any Interest - Drawing , Painting , Reading , Writting , Travel - but more than anything give them their due , Love them , and Enjoy them do NOT ever make the mistake of doing them because some BIG Co. would like that on your resume or some B-School would expect that from You.
There are enough things we would anyway compromise in Life , Let Your Interests be according to your liking.
A good career could be a passion , but let me say this - As one goes further into work life , one begins to desperately find other sources to 'relax' and refresh, and I have seen quite some fellow employees who do not have much of an 'outside' life , and that affects their work life too.Find something that you would Love to do anyday - Ask yourself and take time out to think.
And most Important - you would have to convey to Your folks at Home that they should let you take a few decisions when it comes to 1) Your Career 2) Your Future Goals.
Take your own decisions but take, after Consulting with them and letting them know that - Its the best thing for you.
But you would Have to put it in a very polite and reassuring manner.
Best