I'll update the FAQ page soon to answer this question.
If you see some PMs in the outbox for a long time this only means that the recipient didn't read the message. That's it. It might be that she/he turned off the automatic notifications. Consider contacting a person via e-mail. Or in the forum.
Hope this helps.
Ohh !! ok
I did not know that ... Thanks dzyubam
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