riverripper wrote:
Paying for everything is my only concern about going back to school. The idea of attending grad school, studying hard, and all the long hours doesn’t phase me. Giving up a few years in the work force actually is appealing at this point. Going into debt for school doesn’t bother me, since it will pay off in the end. However, currently my wife and I own a house; we get by very comfortably, we enjoy our lives and still manage to save a decent amount every month. Going from two good salaries down to one, while our bills will stay pretty level is not a fun thought. Obviously a lot of our expenses beyond the necessities will have to be lowered but our mortgage, car payments, insurances, property tax, and utilities are going to stay the same. I am just afraid that we wont get enough to cover all our expenses and will have to either use up all our savings and sell off investments…or god forbid have to do an early withdrawal from my 401K
The real problem is my wife wants to keep our house, she loves it and I would like to keep it also. If we sold it that would make everything simple. (I am hoping to attend school in Boston since she doesn’t want to leave her job and I don’t want to do the long distance thing for two years. Besides a commute to Boston is very doable from where we live.) We do have a fair amount of equity in our home since I have been renovating it myself and bought it before the bubble in the northeast got totally over inflated. I am just concerned about how my school loans will work since our cost of living is really going to be different than someone renting an apartment in Boston. Our mortgage is definitely a lot higher than what the typical one bedroom costs. My wife’s income is good but it wont cover all our costs. We have savings but once again owning a house I don’t want to spend down what we have because if something like the boiler or the roof goes then that’s going to be a huge chunk of money out of pocket. I am of the mind that I want to keep a safety net of a pretty good amount because of the house.
I haven’t talked to any financial aid officers but I am sure they have seen it all before…so hopefully a few conversation about this will lower my stress level.
We were (are) in the same boat. I sold my current place in downtown Chicago, a placed I loved dearly - it wasn't an easy decision... The reason I did it is that it allowed me to pull out enough money to pay for tuition, books and medical for 2 years. On top of that, it leaves enough to give myself a monthly stipend to live on (on top of my wifes income), while still leaving a little bit left over come graduation
We bought a place for substantially less further north and although pulling all that equity out of the house actually makes the new place up north slightly more expensive per month, the cash infusion makes it far easier to face that mortgage payment than if it were on my wifes income alone. The neighboorhood is also more reasonably priced in general - drinks/food/etc - will all be a little lower.
Did it make sense to pull out equity to end up paying more in mortgage? The issue I faced was that my mortgage payment was low for the amount of space I had / where I was - we thought about renting, but even that would have been more than our mortgage payments. So the dilemma became: "Keep a low mortgage payment but have no money to pay it without taking student loans" or "Have a slightly higher payment but have money to pay it."
So, when it came to choosing between 8% (non-us citizen here) maybe-deductible-but-only-if-i-dont-make-too-much student loans to cover my tuition and expenses, and 6% fully deductible interest of a mortgage loan, I chose the mortgage.
There's also the simple argument that my old mortgage plus student loans would have exceeded the cost of my new mortgage.
Finally, I'm also a person who has all three FICO scores over 800 - I keep a close eye on my credit. In my experience, mortgage debt is "preffered" debt to student debt in credit algorithims (the reason is that you have a reason to pay it).