riverripper
Steel, I went for MIT too but as an engineer I think my chances are much worse than if I had a different background. That said Kellogg will definitely round out my background more but my wife loves Boston and would take it over Chicago.
Your reason for applying to HBS, the what if I had applied thought is a pretty common reason I have heard for a lot of folks. I had the opposite reaction, growing up in the Boston area I was completely turned off by the image of HBS. My fear was applying, after my early admit to Kellogg a lot of people were telling me to, and then getting in. If I went and it was everything I imagined and completely hated it, then i would be so mad at myself for giving in....if I got in and didnt go then it would be the what if thought. After reading the HBS thread on BW, if those people end up there I think I made the right choice.
Thanks Kryzak and Riverripper! I appreciate the welcome.
Riverripper - you have pretty much written in words my exact same angst in applying to Harvard. I justified it to myself by saying that I really hadn't done enough research or talked to enough people and thus would apply and worry about the confirming/denying the image later. We'll see - but I think I could turn down Harvard should I get that vibe upon doing my due diligence (should I be fortunate to get to that point).
Alas, you have to listen to your wife - she does have to live through your two years at B-school. From what it sounds like - both Kellogg and MIT have great JV/SO communities.
Also, in an irony befitting the b-school application process, my K-Bud called me about an hour ago (only a few hours after finding out on these boards that there was such a thing) and we had a nice 30 minute conversation (I'm currently snowed in at my house). I don't know how the adcom matches people - but they did an amazing job matching (right down to favorite travel destinations).