for 2.)fivedaysleft, Yes we could start at the same time say 9 am and walk towards each other. We meet at a given point X. Obviously, we will have covered different distances at different speeds, but the time taken to cover the distances will also be different.
Total distance = 100
Distance 1 : 60 = 6x 10
Distance 2 : 40 = 8 x 5
the distance covered will be different as you said, but it will be in the ratio of their speeds...
speed(object1) is propotional to distance(object 1)
speed(object2) is propotional to distance(object 2)
or speed1/ speed2 equals distance1/distance 2 = 60/40
and the time remains constant...
now as per 1.) you have to know that relative velocity is v(object1)-v(object2)
consider : a----------------------------------------------------b
d
a moves right to left and b moves left to right ... they cover the distance d
now chose one direction as positive....say left to right
then Va=+v(objecta)
and Vb = -v(objectb) since it is in the opposite direction
so, relative velocity will be Va-Vb = +v(objecta) - [-v(objectb)] = v(objecta)+v(objectb) ie sum of speeds
if you take right to left as positive ie "B" reference relative velocity will be +v(objectb) - [-v(objecta)] which gives v(objectb)+v(objecta) ie sum of speeds
hope it clears your doubt