bee186 wrote:
However, on a much similar note to toDoorNot.. I do have family friends/far relatives that would talk to my parents & said how guys are going to be intimidated by my status if I have an MBA.. they would think nobody would want to marry me. They said that I should made my mind up & try to lock the guy before I get an MBA
ToDoorNot and Bee - your situation reminds me a lot of how it was when I said I wanted to do my Masters. (Im Indian female too, and was 22/23 at the time - mom was deadset on finding a suitable boy for me before I went for my Masters. Also, parents were terribly concerned about being able to afford the education (of course, like most Indian parents, they assumed they will need to pay for it), till I explained to them about the existence of Research Assistantships. Thankfully my mom was not successful with the marriage thing and with my admission happening, they turned around.
Anyway, nearly 10 years later, now married and wanting to go for my MBA, my husband (says he) is supportive - but he would prefer I go part time a little later in life - since his mom did something similar and ended up doing quite well in corporate after 25 years teaching. Thankfully, he is the kinda guy who wouldn't care if I were more educated or earned more than he.
My problem is, I am more and more convinced that a full time MBA will be better for me - one, I want to change focus in my career and I am not convinced that can happen with a part time degree. Besides, I could not handle my job that requires travel and a part time MBA and possibly start a family too (yes, now, my mom is deadset on us starting a family since Im 31 - but this time Im listening - biological clock and all).
I am also convinced that I would need to go to a top school to justify a full time degree (to myself and family) and am finding out that not only have schools turned younger, I am also not particularly superstar material for them to overlook the age.
Practically, part time makes so much more sense ( we do not have our green card and I am past my 6 years on H1) - but I am drawn towards a full time MBA. Maybe my choice will be made easier for me with dings to where ever I apply - (2 schools that I applied have already gone that route). I am considering what I should do for 2009 - apply to more schools full time or give up and try for a part time degree in a few years after the green card.