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Glad to hear I am not alone. As for dealing with my mother -thanks for the advice - but no thanks =) We don't want to open that can of worms. :-D
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My mother told me I had no shot at the schools I was applying to. She kept telling me to apply to Babson or some local school PT. My wife's mother and grandmother think its terrible that I am going to quit my job and go back to school, while she has to work to support us. They are very old school and think my wife who turns 28 shortly should be having babies now not supporting me as I go to school.

My mother now brags about my going to Kellogg. My dad was fairly supportive but I dont think he really believed I would pull it off. My father in-law thinks its awesome, he is a total blue-collar guy and I think he realizes had he been able to afford college and gone he woudl be much better off.
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I'm in a similar situation except my significant other is the problem and not my parents. They know that I've wanted to do this for years and fully support me, it's my girlfriend that is not as keen on the idea. Currently, she lives in another state, and if that was the only problem i'd probably say adios!, but we have a son together and she is planning on moving to be with me very soon. I really have no idea how this will affect our relationship, but suffice to say, probably not good. She never went to college and she would be perfectly content just to be a mother and work part time. She lacks the quality that burns so strongly in all of us, and that is ambition. No one here could go through the year long process and 2 years of business school without it. Some people don't understand.

With that being said, I have no idea how things are going to be by the time I matriculate somewhere. But you know what really bugs me about her is she tried to veto Chicago if i got into Kellogg or Chicago. I told her she must have lost her mind!!! :lol: That is exactly where I AM going if I get into either of those schools.
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Funny, my wife and her family (who immigrated to the US about 7 years ago) all think my going to school is a brilliant idea. My family (lived in the US for 150 years) think I am a fool.=) Go America~ :roll:
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My parents both have advanced degrees too, but since my mother is a teacher and my father is a retired school administrator they didnt understand the importance of the name. My uncle who was an IB had to explain to my mother he wouldnt even consider hiring someone from outside of half a dozen schools...name means everything.

My wife has been amazingly supportive about the whole thing. She was great, she dealt with my obsession with applying (and this site), visited schools, and everything I could ask of her. I think after DAK she is more excited about the whole thing than I am...she met a ton of other women in the same position as her and really got along with them. She is probably going to have more fun than I will.

JB, your gf will probably love Evanston and Kellogg if you end up there. The JV group is super supportive and very tight knit. Everyone lives in a very tight area and the wives seem to be very involved in the school and with each other. Much more so than any other school I visited or researched, well Tuck is very close but there are a lot less for significant others to do for jobs and fun up there.
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It's not Chicago, Evanston or anywhere specific for those reasons, it's the cold first and foremost. She's trying to veto anywhere above a line that is at about the 33rd parallel. I couldn't even go to Emory or McCombs if that's the case! Most of the best schools are in the frozen north! :(
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How about a nice compromise
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My mom was freaked about finding me a husband if i do a MBA (am an Indian) and whether we can afford it. I explained the whole financial aid thingie. She kinda realized i wasnt about to give up and finally let me do my thing.
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My mom was freaked about finding me a husband if i do a MBA (am an Indian) and whether we can afford it. I explained the whole financial aid thingie. She kinda realized i wasnt about to give up and finally let me do my thing.

Just tell your mom there are lots of single guys at B-school who will be making very good livings in a few years.
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I guess I'm one of the lucky ones. My mom has been nothing but supportive in my quest, telling me to "relax" and "what's destined to happen will happen, no need to stress about it." :P Maybe she had the same crystal ball that NC gazed into? :wink:

My dad has an MBA and always thought I should get an MBA, so no problem with him either.

I think pretty much all of the people around me have been supportive, especially after I explain my reasoning to them. My only advice to those who have loved ones presenting resistance is to just go and do what your heart tells you to do. Life's too short to live for someone else. :)
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Both my parents have no qualifications. They started work at 15. However they live in a different country to me so haven`t been able to support or disapprove. When i told them my plans, they just said it`s up to you! When i told them one of the places i was applying to is HKUST, they started rooting for me to go there because of family connections. But they still said it was up to me where i went because i`m paying for it :D
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Luckily, my parents stopped having any say in those kinds of decisions long ago. They trust I know what I am doing and am just happy to see how excited I am. Of course, the fact that I long outstripped them in income (they are both public school teachers) has something to do with it.
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Yeah, I am hoping she will "fall in line" as it will make life much easier. But, since I've been living on my own since i graduated high school, she hasn't got much (ok, ANY) say in the matter =)
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Spoke to my mom recently- and she wants me to REAPPLY if I dont get into W or K (which most probably I wont anyways). She knows just a few schools (HSWK) and has not heard of either Michigan or Duke. And she recently saw the FT rankings which were splashed across all the newspapers in India as ISB was ranked #20 and to think that Ross is #26 did not help either. Just amused...but then I am obviously not going through this hellish process again...:)

On a side note: the % salary increase from one of the top Indian b-schools is ridiculous- about 100-200%, if not more. So a lot of my family who are not very well aware of the reality, expect the same here...if only it were true...
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I've been really lucky so far. My parents are the blue collar (think John Mellancamp and a beat-up chevy truck in the background) and they have always pushed my siblings and I to get as much education as possible and to see the world vs the living the "tough" life. In-laws are immigrants and all for me going back for more education (as long as we don't put having kids on hold for too long :wink: )
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this is a gr8 thread and its gr8 to listen to all the different ways people think bout their families. My family had been very supportive. My mom doesent have an idea bout the MBA but she is just happy that m goin to get another degree. She has always been very keen on me gettin education n she will not stop until I get that Dr. title in front of my name. My wife has been ultra supportive but she has no idea bout how busy m gonna get in school. I sometimes tell her bout it n I sometimes let her read bout it n she gets worried a little but she is cool. I know she will get really mad once she has to actually go thru it esp with her pregnancy. Here's hoping we all come out intact with our families after all this MBA thing n I hope we r all still on this gmatclub to post bout it all.
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I have not been so lucky. My father was against me going to law school...I went...he was right. I don't regret going because it was the right choice at the time, but I ended up hating my work. Now, I am going to get an MBA, which is a waste in his mind. It has been very tough to deal with.

In response to others, the ROI argument does not always apply. I cannot know whether I will make more money (probably similar money) and I cannot be sure that I will like my job more (I just started a new job in my effort to get OUT of my last position). How do you justify going to school when you can't make those arguments?
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