I would say both Kellogg and Chicago are going to be far above Yale and above Tuck. Yale cant remotely compete with either school in MC opportunities. While Tuck is a great school the brands of Kellogg and GSB both give them an advantage. I would say after HBS, Kellogg has the strongest brand in management on your list, followed pretty closely by GSB. I would actually put Ross above Yale in the MBA world, slightly (yes we all know Yale's brand trumps U Mich)...personally I also would rather spend two years in Ann Arbor than New Haven.
Just look at the various schools employment reports and it will backup what I am saying. It seems that MC placement tends to really follow overall rankings.
Tuck is known as a GM school but I would still have a hard time taking it over Chicago which is considered a Finance school above all else. Also, despite being known as the top marketing school, MC is the most popular destination for graduates. So in my opinion of the schools you listed I would say that opinions of schools management reputation would be...
1) HBS
2) Kellogg
3) Chicago GSB
4) Tuck
5) Ross
6) Yale
From what I remember of your profile you are married so I would say big plus for looking at Kellogg. You have a slightly unusual profile, another thing Kellogg seems to appreciate more than other schools. Also you are on the olderside and kellogg has the reputation of valuing experience. I think you are probably more competitve than you think...that said its going to be an incredibly tough year. Personally I would say though HBS is a great school your age really kills you there and its going to be insanely difficult to get into...I would only apply there if I couldnt live with the what if but trust me if you get into another top school that wouldnt be an issue. I am sure HBS is many people's dream school but you wont be nearly as competitive there as you would be at other schools.
Probably not what you want to hear but I would recommend going for Kellogg and Chicago in R1, you said your wife was a fan of the area and both would be great for you. If you want one of the top 3 schools, go with Wharton. Your age is going to be MUCH less of an issue...look at HBS's stats and 41% of their class graduated from college within the last 3 years and the average GPA was 3.66. Wharton has a great GM reputation and your chances would be 10x better. You never know you could get into HBS but personally I think the time an energy would be much better spent on a program you are going to be much more competitve at.
My suggestion:
R1. Kellogg, Chicago, Tuck, and Wharton if you want a dream school
R2. Ross, Yale, and then do one of the Duke/Darden
It might be worth going for Ross in R1, there is a lot of evidence that they are MUCH easier in R1 than R2...by much I mean something like 40% to 10% admit rates. Someone (I think dosa don) found numbers that showed this to be true.