What if youve never failed?

Thanks Cheetarah. I was actually just reading your blog earlier, you write very well, so I am sure your essays were a strength in your apps. Congrats on all the success.

There is more then one "this question doesnt apply to my life question" out there for me, but I guess thats why I am looking into it now to do some self assessing. I will start looking into more personal broken promises and failed expectations.

If you've never failed, then why are you going to business school?

sounds crazy..never failed? Einstein says if you have never failed, you've never tried new things.. go try something new.. you'll definitely fail

Yeah, it would be crazy to say Ive never failed. I try tons of new things that I fail at, just none of them make for very interesting b-school essays.

I guess I just dont take enough risks to go to a top B-school...

I also feel you are taking failure too literally. We are all humans and there are times when we all tend to make mistakes , times when we fall short of our expectations . Some of us bounce back with renewed energy and triumph, while others yield to their failure and never make an effort to try again.
It is all about our perception of failure. People who say they have never failed in life might have not set any standards or goals for themselves and were contended with what ever life sent their way.

You are saying "I work in a really big company where I am a small cog in the big wheel. They don't let me play with anything dangerous enough to really fail at something. Any advice on where to look? "

I would ask you "Didn't you aspire or make an effort to be a big cog in the big wheel instead of a small cog"? If you did, that was a failure on your part. Then how did you better your self to deserve that status? What did you learn from that experience? How did you grow from that experience? Answers to these questions may help you find your failure story.

I hope this helped.

Thanks Dbalks and Cheetarah1980 for liking my response.

Thanks Poonamtandon, that is good food for thought and a good point to get into for self reflection. How did I end up as such a small part of such a big company?

You know, sometimes you feel like you are doing all the right things by working hard and networking, but somewhere you must be doing something wrong to still be the small cog. It really is a harsh reality, but a reality. I guess I was looking for a project or something at work, but I work at an insurance company and everything here is so risk averse that we take months to think about things with little action. So maybe I am looking for something project oriented, when I should be looking at how i got where I am..


Do you think I can use the failure essay to make a case for career change? Like saying that I wanted to work in I-banking and ended up settling in financial services? And that my proactive apporach to solving my failure was becoming a CFA charterholder, networking, and getting and MBA as part of the plan? Do you think the failure has to be completely resolved and made up for. I read in some admissions books that you should be able to state how you fixed the issues, and how you won't repeat the mistakes. If such a mistake is too easy to make up an I still havent done it, do I not qualify to go to a top B-school?

I realize I am overthinking, but just want to bounce ideas off of anyone who will listen and see my options when I inevitably face this question.

I agree, you are over thinking about your failure.

Q.1 Do you think I can use the failure essay to make a case for career change? Like saying that I wanted to work in I-banking and ended up settling in financial services? And that my proactive apporach to solving my failure was becoming a CFA charterholder, networking, and getting and MBA as part of the plan?

Ans. You can do that but it all depends how convincingly you present your case.

Q.2.Do you think the failure has to be completely resolved and made up for. I read in some admissions books that you should be able to state how you fixed the issues, and how you won't repeat the mistakes. If such a mistake is too easy to make up an I still havent done it, do I not qualify to go to a top B-school?

Ans. What matters the most is your take away from the setback / failure? Don't we learn from our experiences at every stage of our life ? Learning from our experiences is what makes us mature. And this maturity and resilience is what the Ad Com are looking for in their prospective candidates through such questions.
I hope it helped.
Thanks,
Poonam