Congrats on your admits. I was in a somewhat similar situation a year back, having admits from FEMBA and EWMBA and I can share my experience which hopefully helps you. I was deciding between FEMBA hybrid vs Haas EWMBA in person. I am currently enrolled in the Hass EWMBA program. I fly every weekend from Portland to Berkeley and it is really hectic, although I really enjoy the in-person experience and feel that it is worth waking up at 3 AM and catching 6 AM flights on Saturdays

I have peers flying from Seattle, LA and SD. To me, the discussions with peers in between the lecture breaks and before and after classes are the best part of the day. We had to attend couple of classes remotely in our 1st year and even though Hass does a great job of using technology, the remote experience doesn't come close to being in-person. Which is why I am glad that I did not choose the FEMBA hybrid option. That's just my opinion though.
At Haas, 1st year is the core program and it is pretty straightforward (and also the most hectic portion course-wise unless you waive some core courses). The tricky part begins 2nd year when they have electives and some of them are offered only on weekdays, so it helps if you are local to the bay area. I am contemplating moving to the Bay area to be able to enroll in weekday electives too, but currently can't due to some personal reasons. Maybe that's where flex program has an advantage? (Though I don't know the exact details of the flex program, since they started it this year itself)
One other thing to consider is how involved you want to be in clubs/student organizations/extra curriculars? Right now, I feel like I am missing out on these because they are mainly run by the full timers and lot of these events happen on weekdays when I can't attend. In that case a local program has an advantage.
I totally agree with with BB on his take on the PM role part. Although, I am not actively job hunting right now, based on my discussions with 2nd and 3rd year students, I realized that in general PM roles at top tech companies are very competitive, so irrespective of the school you will have to prepare well for interviews, case studies etc. and potentially take a salary hit depending on your current salary. I find that the Haas Career Mgmt. group (CMG) is very active overall and they do lot of job postings, workshops, networking events etc.
Sorry for the long message. I understand this is a tricky problem with no correct answer, but I just thought of sharing few considerations and I am willing to answer any further questions you might have regarding my experience. Good luck!