The OP asked for a personal ranking, which per se can't be right or wrong. I assume anyone interested in banking is aware of league tables so I doubt that's the point of this thread. I thought that DB and Barclays were lower in terms of prestige in the US (hence I did not list them in tier 2) but general perception of those working in the industry might very well differ, as you pointed out. My opinion is based on people I know working in this field, and based on forum discussions. I work in M&A but in Europe, not in the US.
As Dr. Satisfaction mentioned, there are are endless discussions on this topic on wallstreetoasis.com and numerous other forums, which prove that there is no general consensus.
If you want to look at league tables then I would at least consider a longer time period than one year. 2009 league tables coincided with the ranking you stated but that's really just coincidence nothing else. Let's take MS as an example. In 2008 they were only ranked nr. 5 (among other things because they didn't advise on the USD 113bn spin-off of Philipp Morris from Altria because of a conflict of interest), yet few would doubt that they are in the top 3 in the US.