When I started the post-GMAT process, I had no clue what my sweet spot was either, so I requested evaluations from a couple consultants. Each response brought my expectations down a bit, to the point that I considered myself a top-30 type of school candidate. One thing to keep in mind is that many consultants in my opinion overemphasize formal leadership and extracurricular involvement. While those are great to have, I hardly think they are a necessity like a solid academic record (GMAT and/or GPA) and good (either reputable and well known job/company or very unique) work experience.
After requesting a take on my potential school list, AlexMBAApply told me to shoot a little bit higher than schools in the 10-25 range, suggesting basically a list of a couple top 10s, 1 top 15, and 1 top 25, and I ultimately feel that was a pretty good list. I got into 1 top 10, 1 top 15, and 1 top 25 with scholarship.
I think a lot of the successful applicants from this year have a clearer understanding of what it takes to get in where (although it is often still a crapshoot), so feel free to hop into chat during a weekday or post into the peer review forum if you haven't already.