Hi Manish,
Thanks for your question. I'll do my best to answer.
As with every story, it helps to have a little background.
I grew up in the US and have traditionally been extremely successful on standardized tests. In high school, I scored a perfect 800 on the Verbal side of the SAT on my second attempt.
I first took the GMAT as an MBA candidate in 2005. I scored a 700 then, because I completely ran out of time on the quant section and did not answer the last 5 questions. CATs were totally new to me and I had not taken any practice exams before sitting for the real exam (in 2004/2005, I'm not sure if there were practice CATs available). I was a bit weirded out by the idea of a CAT and so I did every quant question twice (literally) in order to try to avoid silly mistakes. That sounds ridiculous now, but I had always ended up with big chunks of time at the end of the SAT, so it never occurred to me that I could run out of time on an exam. After that first attempt, I wanted to retake the exam but my advisor at the time reminded me that a 700 was the 94th percentile (it was then! how times have changed ...) and that I would certainly get into my target program. I did get in, and I didn't have any reason to touch the GMAT again until 2013, when I took a part-time job as a GMAT Verbal coach in Paris.
I scored the V51 in the summer of 2016. At that time, I had been tutoring/coaching GMAT Verbal for 3 years - first at a small firm in Paris, then for two firms online once I moved to Berlin in mid-2015. At my job in Paris, I only worked with students on the Verbal side of the exam, as the firm had a specialist model for tutors. However, once I moved, the two firms I started teaching for required that I also coach the Quant side, so I got up to speed.
One of these firms I was coaching for wanted to say that they only employed 99th percentile tutors. I loved tutoring, but I didn't want to be asked to lie about my score, so I made plans to take the exam again to update the score. It's actually a little tricky to prep for the exam as a tutor because you've already seen all the good questions! I was totally spoiled on the GMATPrep question bank because I'd discussed so many of the questions with my students. I took a Manhattan and a Veritas mock exam in the 10 days before my test date, and scored 750 on each, though I don't remember the Q/V breakdown.
I went to the testing center first and foremost to experience some of the aspects that my students often asked questions about: the procedures for breaks, the scratch pad notebook, and the testing environment. (A lot has changed since 2005!) My second goal was to get a 750, which was the 99th percentile at the time.
I did not go to the testing center expecting to get a V51. And I think that is actually an important point -
I don't believe that GMAT rewards arrogance or perfectionistic tendencies. I did expect to do very well, but I anticipated that there might be one or two questions on the Verbal where I didn't have a mind-meld with GMAT.
I was also a few months pregnant at the time with my son. Luckily I felt fine physically, and I had put to rest any nagging worries that I could have "pregnancy brain" and therefore not full control of my abilities.
The experience of the verbal side of the exam was frankly unremarkable, because there was nothing that surprised me. (Maybe that was the surprise - that there were no surprises. I don't remember feeling really torn between two answers anywhere in the Verbal.) But I had spent the better part of the last three years talking about these types of questions and having to distill my own explanations for GMAT's logic and criteria for good answers.
There are some aspects of my story that just aren't relatable for many test-takers: my experience with US standardized tests, or the sheer amount of time I've spent reviewing GMAT questions and discussing them. Even the fact that I wasn't taking the exam in order to gain admission to a top business school - that's unlike most candidates and certainly represents a less stressful situation. But here are some things I would suggest that motivated candidates, including non-natives, can take away:
1. When you are in exam mode,
don't focus on your results (which are in the future), focus on your
process (which is here and now). In practice, develop the ways that you will attack each type of question, and then execute on those plans consistently throughout the exam. When you are in the exam, your focus needs to be on the question in front of you - not dwelling on mistakes you made in practice, and not dreaming/dreading what score will show up at the end. If you find your mind drifting to the past or the future, bring it back to the present by giving very clear instructions about the process to follow for the question before you. (This is called Instructional Self-Talk and it works well for athletes and others in high pressure situations.)
2.
If there is something that is worrying you during practice, find a way to truly address it
before you sit for the exam. For me, this was the worry that I might experience "pregnancy brain" and somehow have my capabilities compromised by the hard work my body was doing. I had to make peace with that well before I walked into the testing center. Writing down your worrying thoughts and talking about them with someone can make a huge difference. (I also recommend using the Thought Distortion categories from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify the faulty thinking pattern in your worrying thoughts.)
3.
Whenever you miss a question in practice, try to come up with a very clear explanation of a) why the correct answer is the best of these five choices, and b) why your chosen answer is 'broken'. Write down this explanation. Come back to your explanations to reinforce the qualities of a good GMAT answer (and the characteristics of a weak/suspect answer).
4. If at all possible,
find the opportunity to teach what you have learned to someone else.
shekhar_2017 had a great
debrief in which he mentioned that he was able to teach his study buddy, who was newer to the GMAT than he was. Many of you are also doing this on GMAT Club, creating a fabulous learning experience for everyone. This process of teaching and explaining forces you to get clear on what constitutes a winning GMAT answer, and you'll use this to measure answer choices on practice questions and on the exam.
5.
Read. Read the New York Times and the Economist all the time. Science News is another good choice, as many of you know. Read on the train while you are commuting. During lunch break at the office. Read about subjects that you have no background in and that would normally seem boring to you. When possible, strike up conversations with smart people in fields quite different from yours and ask them to explain to you an important issue or controversy in their field. (This might actually work as a dating strategy too, but that is beside the point
) Make it your mission to gain an understanding of something new, in English, every day. You don't need to become an expert in all of these topics, but you do need to broaden your comfort zone and enhance your ability to understand controversies, mysteries, and trends in fields outside your own.
Does this help? Let me know if there are specific questions that you'd like me to answer.
Best, Jennifer