anna126m wrote:
I am from NYC and plan to recruit for positions in NYC and come back to NYC after B-school. I am interested in consulting and tech careers.
I also have a boyfriend in NYC. It does not make sense for him to leave his job and move with me just to have to move again in less than 2 years. If i go to Booth I would be in a long distance relationship during the next 2 years. On the other hand, leaving NYC for a bit would be exciting, while staying here is very convenient as obviously I have a place to live and know the city well.
As you probably know, Booth is MUCH better for consulting.
Regarding tech in NYC, there are only a few "big tech" companies that hire on a similar timeline with other MBA on-campus opportunities (Amazon, Google, eBay, etc.). For jobs at these firms, I think Booth is better. From what I've heard, recruiting for other tech opportunities comes late and it's immensely valuable for networking purposes to be located in the area you want the job. So, I think NYU is better if you want to work for GrubHub/Sailthru/Venmo/Birchbox/etc. (well not sure about Birchbox since they really like to hire from HBS but you get my point..).
That being said, I've heard lots of break-up stories associated with business school and long-distance makes it especially hard. However, if you got into these schools I'm sure you have what it takes to make it work if it's a priority for you. Does he?
If I were in your shoes, I would take Booth and put my career first. If I were in your shoes and married (which I happen to be), I would take NYU.
As it turns out, I faced a similar dilemma. I'm also in NYC and was admitted into a local MBA program. My spouse and I will relocate because the other school is a better fit for my career and because my spouse is just finishing school and at a good point for a transition. However, if my spouse had a great career opportunity here in NYC, I would probably stay here for my MBA. If we were dating without a "life-long commitment" (marriage, 6+ yrs relationship, whatever you want to call it), I would probably relocate to the better MBA program for me regardless of my partner's situation. For me, it's one of those life decisions in which the specifics of and the commitment to the relationship can make a big difference in your decision-making. Optimize for one or two? Prioritize career or relationship? I made it a group decision and am lucky to have gotten the support I was looking for from my partner.
A tough decision, but a good one to have. Either choice will be great. Congrats!