People are definitely free to post what they like. I was only asking what the original person hoped to contribute to the conversation.
I guess the question is "is spending money you might not necessarily have and negatively impacting your job a true measure of commitment"?
I went through that pledging process and even then it was never that serious to me. Really the only thing that would be "that serious" to me involves the life and death of people I care about. I want to go to business school. I really want to go to some particular business schools BUT I will not do pretty much anything to get in. And if that keeps me out of a certain business school - then i'm ok with that. That's also how I am at work.
I will do good work and strive to improve, but it is never "that serious" to me. I will not fall ill or neglect the people that are important to me for a job no matter how much I love it.
Some of the schools i was invited to interview at recommend campus visits but I opted for skype interviews because the timing would not work at all with what I do. However, I know what my schedule is like ahead of schedule so I did make time to visit the schools back when I had more control over my schedule.
All this to say, I think people have different opinions about how far you have to go to prove you want something. Even in my pledge class, there were some people that did things I refused to do (and yet somehow we are all in). I don't know about
Rosemariecourt but I know if it were me, this would sour me quite a bit on Darden.
PS. Are you only talking to one particular admissions person? I've found some folks are more rigid than others and will enforce rules how they in particular see fit and you might have better luck if you talk to someone else.