I am in a big dilemma.
I am a married international student around 30, (only 1.5 year left on H1B visa and GC not started).
I have admission at Harvard and Top10 PT. My career goals are not sure, but I like high-tech and consulting.
My spouse (30) has been living away from me since our marriage (1.5 years) as our living together plans were crushed
by recession. We have been trying to live together. She is career oriented and thus looking for a job at my place.
She is now tired of job searching. Recently she got a job offer around my location. Now if I go to HBS we again
have to live apart and then because we do not have GC application in next 2 years, we would soon have to go
back to India soon after HBS (within 1 year).
Pros of Top 5-10 PT:
- Both working and staying together
- Could raise family (high time as per age guidelines)
- GC application could get started
- Financially easy, as no loan
Cons of Top 5-10 PT
- Far less career mobility compared to Harvard
- Might be stuck in current profession, worst-case scenario
Pros of Harvard
- Unmatched Reputation
- Career mobility
Cons of Harvard
- Living further away for 1-2 years
- Financial risk, big loan
- Delaying GC application, causing us to go back to India, which we could be okay
but it would not be good for ROI as earning in rupees to pay a loan in $. (Bad exchange rate)
Please let me know what should I do. I understand it is a personal decision but I would
appreciate your feedback.