Anderson is my #1 choice and I'd be a fly-in. Its very manageable. I did the open house in March as a fly-in then came back to SJC with a group of P/Ters as well!
I have spoken with a few alums about this and they all stated that over the course of 3 years the definitely got to know the Anderson Bay Area folks, but it did take some time/effort.
Personally, I know there will be times when I stay the weekend, or fly in Friday at Noon for an evening event. I accept this going in, and if it means going to the school with the best fit for me takes a few stays at a Holiday Inn, so be it.
In the end, it comes down to you. If you've got the will, there is a way.