coccinelle13
Hi everone,
Trying to evaluate whether this is time to say goodbye and move on with life and would appreciate the community's two cents on this.
I applied to an M7 niche program only (yes, I did realize the chances of getting it were slim, but as an entrepreneur, there's a high opportunity cost in leaving your business and moving somewhere else (let alone financing the degree), so I felt like unless the program really "clicks", I might not be happy with my decision in the longterm).
My background:
Female, low income, first gen, non-competitive demographic, entrepreneur ever since graduating from college 7 years ago. Below 3 GPA from Ivy League, due to extenuating circumstances I explained in my optional essay.
First attempt (2023 intake):Due to my bad GPA, I focused on the GMAT, scored an average 730 (Quant 49 (73%), Verbal 41 (93%), AWA 5 (56%), IR 7 (79%)). I applied R2 and would say my focus breakdown was 60% GMAT, 20% program research, 20% essay writing. Got dinged with no interview. Asked for feedback, none given.
Second attempt (2024 intake):I was torn whether to retake the GMAT (although 730 was above my usual practice scores, so getting a higher score might not be possible), the majority of people told me to focus on the rest of my application and that my GMAT was good enough. During this second attempt I discovered
ApplicantLab that I was unfortunately unaware of during my first attempt or it would have made a big difference in crafting my story. This time I would say my focus was 70% essay writing, 20% program research, 10% academics booster (I took 5 Coursera courses hosted by that school, finished MBAMath). Again, dinged with no interview.
I am still absolutely in love with the program, I have researched all there is to research about it, I feel like I could work for their admissions and give these Zoom conferences explaining the program at this point, honestly. (I am not saying this to brag, just to put into perspective that I believe I have really done my research over the past 2 years). I reached out to 10 alumni, had deeper conversations/ feedback with 3 of them. The only thing I couldn't do is visit campus since I am too far away. Everyone I have shared my background with who knows this program a bit better agrees my background is ideal/ diverse for this program and they don't see why I didn't even get a chance for interview.
Any advice whatsoever what I could do? I have put so much effort into preparing this application that I have no idea how to improve, I happened to get in touch with some applicants who did get an interview invite this year and they seem much less passionate about the program (and know much less about it) than I... and yet they clearly were the better choice. Any two cents someone might be willing to share would be much appreciated!
If you have no opinion on the above, could you shed some light into the negative stigma attached to applying to the same school several times, since I fail to see it? To me this whole process seems like going to the Olympics, and while everyone would love to go there for the first time and get a gold medal, some people run faster than others/ have better trainers/ etc. so it's unrealistic to expect winning gold in the first run. As a spectator I'd be much more impressed by an athlete who participates several times in the Olympics and moves from 20th in the ranking to gold, wouldn't you? It would show perseverance, that they are willing to work on their skills, and that they have a clear aim. I guess what I am failing to see is, how does this not apply for an MBA application? I do understand that for some people they have to start their MBA journey in a particular year for various reasons (maybe end of a contract/ they are planning a move/ family obligations etc). So it makes sense to cast a wider net so you can be sure to have at least one "gold medal" in your bucket. But if you don't mind starting your MBA in a different year, wouldn't someone who keeps applying to the same program and improves their "package", show an adcom how passionate they are about their program and how much they have invested to become their "ideal candidate"? I'm really sorry if this is a stupid question but I truly fail to see how reapplying makes things more difficult, if not the contrary? Cheers for any replies I might get on this, really appreciate it!Hi there!
Ok so first of all, the idea to reach out to the MBA program and ask why you were rejected is probably
not going to get a response, if you applied to an elite program. The top programs are VERY clear about when they do / do not give feedback (e.g., in previous years, HBS would offer feedback *ONLY* to applicants rejected *after interview*). So if you want to try again for the same program, I would in fact NOT reach out and ask for feedback unless they say they're open to giving it... it risks being irritating / "
Why does this person think that the usual rules don't apply to them? Don't they know that we reject literally several thousand people per year? Why do they think they are special / deserve this extra special treatment???" (Note that *I* am not saying that I think this about you; I'm just "putting on my adcom hat" and thinking about how such a query might actually backfire / actually risks making a negative impression).
Second of all, something that jumped out was the "
since graduating from college 7 years ago" part of your profile -- that would put you at the 8-year mark upon enrollment, which is probably about 2 - 3 years higher than what would be ideal / average for most of the top programs. In fact, this is exactly why Stanford offers its "MSx" program option overtly for people with 8+ years of experience (i.e., where you are now) -- it's an option to get a Stanford degree, even for folks who might otherwise be considered "too old" for the "typical" two year MBA.
Another tricky thing that entrepreneurs face is the very "opportunity cost" trade-off you mention: some entrepreneurs aren't successful enough, pre-MBA (e.g. the business they built is too small to fire up adcoms' engines)... or it's TOO successful, in which case: "Well, do they really even need the MBA?!?" OR "Well, will the company collapse if they leave for 1 - 2 years? Why would anyone risk leaving a highly-successful business, just for an MBA, when there are SO MANY OTHER ways to get this education in a way that would
not require them to quit?".
Re: the other facets of your profile, while I agree that the GPA probably gave them pause, given the solid GMAT + other factors (ie you had a good reason for the grades being what they were), my gut is saying that the GPA wasn't "The Thing" that had the most impact.
So, if I *had* to guess, going on the (understandably!) limited info posted here, I'd say it's *more*:
- Being at 7 years of experience
- Your business perhaps being "not successful enough to impress us" or "so successful why bother with an MBA [a two year, full-time one, at least]?"
So my advice here is to first, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE remove this idea of "there is only 1 school worth attending" idea. While concepts like a "one true soul mate / Prince(ss) Charming" work
splendidly in Hallmark movies, real life is thankfully one where SERIOUSLY, MANY SCHOOLS / PROGRAMS can get you were you want to go.
(And, if I were to play Devil's Advocate here -- thinking that "there is only 1 MBA program worth going to" actually makes me wonder if the "does this person even need the MBA?" reason might have been the downfall here --- after all, if someone
truly needs an MBA, wouldn't they maximize their chances by applying to many schools?)
[UPDATE after reading your PM to me: I also wonder if the Specific Specialized Program you applied to thought that you already have *enough* experience in That Specialized Thing That They Do... and as such, that you wouldn't really benefit from Their Full Specialized Program [vs. 1 or 2 electives, which you could have taken even if not in that Specialized Program?]. Since the program you mentioned comes at ADDITIONAL time and also considerable additonal cost, if anything, as an entrepreneur, it's a WORSE fit for you? [ is this what THEY might have been thinking? shouldn't you want to get back into the workforce *asap*, and also with , let's say, $X0k less in student loans?]
So -- *IF* my gut is on the right track here re: possible reasons it didn't work out, then re-applying in the next cycle
will probably not address those reasons (if anything, the situation may be slightly worse) -- so hey, look, re-apply because why not? BUT ALSO I AM BEGGING YOU PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE:
PLEASE consider applying to more than just one program!!! PRETTY PLEASE??
Specifically for you? I'd *love* to see you apply to programs that might be stronger fits for you, such as:
- Columbia's "J-Term" program (applications open in the summer): an incredible option for entrepreneurs
- Stanford MSx (open to older, er, I mean "more seasoned" candidates... plus, if you've been successful at entrepeneurship they are more likely to *value* / cherish that, vs. the program you did apply to)
- Kellogg 1-year MBA (they have some pre-reqs but you might have already covered those via your prep anyway, and if you didn't, I think they're pretty easy to fulfill in advance?) and/or any other 1-year program
- I feel like an INSEAD could really like this story, as could Oxford / Cambridge / LBS
- Other programs that MIGHT be able to give you MANY of the benefits of the specialized program you were aiming for at first -- e.g. Yale is insanely flexible with the ability to take other classes across the broader university, probably including the Specific Specialized Thing that made you crush on the program you applied to?
While I know how easy it is for us and our falliable human brains to think that there is ONE AND ONLY ONE potential [job / school / mate / sandwich] out there that will bring us eternal bliss, the bad news is, no such magical perpetual-bliss-thing exists. The GOOD news is, since there is honestly no such thing as "only 1 perfect" option, it means that there are a TONNNNN of other potential [jobs / schools / mates / sandwiches] that can JUST as easily get us what we want out of life (we might even realize in retrospect that they were better for us all along!) and it would be a real shame to miss out on an "equally good or maybe better" situation because we've convinced ourselves of the lie (sorry to be blunt, but it is indeed a lie) that "there's only 1 that could possibly work for me, and I'm going to shoot myself in the foot by closing my mind to any other possibility".
TL;DR: Yes apply
to other MBA programs again (you can try this one again too but... well, be realistic about it)... and if your answer continues to be: "It must be that program or nothing else", then that might be a sign that you actually don't really need the MBA, and perhaps the admissions committee sensed that and
paradoxically, the "lack of actually needing this thing" might have seeped through, in subtle / barely-perceptible-but-perceptible-nonetheless ways?
Warmly,
Maria "50% of Tough Love is Love; this comes from a place of good intentions!" Wich-Vila
(edited to fix some funky formatting)