Sorry all, its been awhile since I've posted here, but with the wedding and honeymoon its been a hectic couple of months to start this year. I thought I'd pipe up here because I have some recent experience with this, in my own way. I have already been lucky enough to be awarded a good scholarship to Emory, but looking at my financial situation after the wedding extravaganza, I figured it couldn't hurt to ask if there were any additional funds available. I called a contact in admissions, let them know that I had "other opportunities" that were better financially. I let them know they were definitely my top choice, but asked if there was anything that could be done to help with the financial burden. I was required to send an e-mail reiterating what I had said in the phone conversation. My case was then reviewed by adcom and I received an additional $6K. Not a ton, but for nothing really changing in my application status, that was very welcome. And, it proves to me again that Emory is where I belong. If the school really wants you, I think they will at least make the effort to try to increase your scholarship if any funds are available.
So, basically, I did not name any other schools, or competing offers, I just let them know that the financial aspect was important in my decision making process.