thanks you all for the replies. I have made my mind and going to Stern next year.
the only schools I would choose over Stern would be as I said
Harvard ( there is no guarantee I will be admitted next year)
Wharton (I already had my undergrad. there and took 9 courses from Wharton. In addition, living in nyc is an important plus for NYU. So evenif I am admitted to Wharton, still I may choose NYU over Wharton next year)
MIT and Chicago => I want to work in NYC so I think in terms of recruiting in Wall Street there is not much of a difference between Stern or MIT or Booth. I would prefer living in NYC over both Boston and Chicago.
Columbia . in terms of recruiting Columbia I think has a slight advantage over Stern but I did not like the campus when I visited it.
So even if I get into all of the schools I mentioned above next year, there is a chance that I would still choose NYU (expect for Harvard of course) over them.
Also I am not even sure if I can show a drastic improvement in my essays next year. I had applied in Jan so between now and then not much has changed in my professional life.
So I am ready to go to Stern =))