mpg2011 -
I rarely offer unsolicited advice, but after viewing some of your comments, I can't help but respond.
You have to stop being so negative and nervous. If I were adcom and I saw what you wrote for HBS and Wharton, it would make me not want to admit you. If I were an employer, it would make me not want to hire you. Put yourself in the shoes of your classmate - do you really want someone on your learning team moping around all day saying they don't think the judges at the case competition will like your team for so and so reasons? Do you really want a colleague who walks out of a client meeting depressed because they think the deal is lost due to one typo in the presentation deck?
Maybe deep inside it's just a way for you to set expectations low in hopes of being pleasantly surprised. Even so, that kind of negativity will bring down everyone around you. It creates poor morale, and takes energy out of those who care about you because they are trying to make you feel better. I had friends in college who were the type to panic about a final exam weeks in advance. That's all they would talk about - and after each study session they would say, I don't think I'm going to do well. I really wanted to help them, but I knew explaining some last minute equations isn't going to solve the root of their problems. How many times can you really say "you're going to be fine"?
Now, I don't know you, and you could be completely different in person than what your posts seem to portray to me. But in any case, have confidence in yourself. Sometimes when you think over and over again you can't do something, you really can't, and vice versa. Maybe you don't give it all you've got because you didn't believe in your chances, or something, I don't know - but things often work out that way. I'm sure you have a lot going for you if you got an interview to Wharton. In fact, I was really happy when I saw you got an invite after all the stress you went through for HBS. So why the negativity again? You need to go into everything with the attitude like, I know I'm good enough for this opportunity, I'm going to do everything I can to give it my best shot, and if it doesn't work out, who cares.
Be positive and stop asking what ifs. The time you spent wondering if filling out a form the wrong way at HBS is why you got dinged (doubtful) and if you should apply to Kellogg/Booth just so you may get good news now (poor reason), could be spent investing in your future in so many better ways. Use your energy to look forward, not backwards, and stop doubting yourself.
Best of luck for you next week...
mpg2011
All the schools I apply only start notifying me next week.
Which means, I'm so nervous. Discouraged. Feeling like it's not going to happen.
I read about all these Booth and Kellog admits and think that I should have applied there and today I might be a happy admit instead of an anxious applicant.
But I went for HBS and Wharton, Darden and Duke for rd 1 and left Kellog and Booth for rd 2.
I'm not confident about Wharton. I'm expecting the ding. Which means I'll need to wait so long for Booth and Kellog. It's so painful. My apps are ready though, so I guess that's a plus. Just need to get the recs in. And wait, and wait, and wait.
I wish I got the Wharton ding already. I can feel it coming and waiting one more week for it is just PAINFUL =[
I made a promise to stay off gmat club until next Monday. It is just driving me crazy.
Good luck to you all waiting.