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I do agree it's unfair and it's easily understandable to be frustrated; I sure would be too.
I was waitlisted for a school this time around as well; it's very difficult to be in-between, I would almost rather know my fate beforehand, even if it's a ding, so I can plan ahead. At the same time, schools usually deal with the same thing, with applicants matriculating at other places too. While I understand what they have to go through, I do agree they should be expected to be professional and honest in dealing with these situations, just like we need to be when we apply.
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Hey GrayMatter,

I'm not a big fan of contesting admissions decisions, but in this case you were justified. You come across as very measured in your posts - so I imagine that you did not rampage on them, but were more reserved.

Not that this offers you any solace, but the lack of transparency was probably something that the adcom in question also struggles with. Depending on the resources available, I am going to guess that this school is not running a "world-class" operation behind the curtain. If it's the program I am thinking of - just take a look at their online application - it's literally cut and paste - what's a Word doc? That type of tech tells you that things are probably going to get missed.
Again, this does not excuse them, but they probably don't know what's going on either.

I suppose the adcom could hold it against you - for speaking up. But whatever. If they reject you because you stuck up for yourself - and you were relatively professional about it - then they would have to be complete assholes to ding you for that. In my knowledge, that is not this school's (if I am guessing the right school's) style. Regardless, if you you really want to go to the school - reapply. If you think they are going to hold it against you next year, reapply next year and just show up to a bunch of in-person events and be nice. Don't shirk the issue though if you have the opportunity to talk about it in person, just take the no-blame approach. What's done is done. So if you're mature about it going forward, you'll get some brownie points. So buck up!

That's my 2 cents anyway.

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Hi lb2015,

Thanks for your response! I have quite a few other options and so not unduly affected by this situation. However, the school in question was my top choice school for various reasons. I agree about "life is not fair" :-). I did make it clear to them that I was not contesting their right to choose the applicants but expected transparency in the process. I felt that if the school had stated that early in the process that they will keep accepting applications beyond their deadline and decision dates (if need be) and had not stated "mistakenly" that the class is full when in fact a new candidate was interviewed and accepted after stating this, it would have saved me from unnecessary waiting (personally I cancelled an international trip to visit my dad who was in ICU just so that I can complete the formalities if I got accepted). In my case, I knew that I will lose whatever little chance I may have of getting into the school when I shot off that e-mail to AdCom hoping that they will rectify their process so that future waitlisted candidates will be better addressed.

Another school which has rolling deadlines and where I was waitlisted too was very candid about their process and the expectations were set right from the beginning. I felt that beyond making up numbers and the right mix, there is a human element missing in the process. I decided to write this on a public forum after speaking to many, including an industry expert who said that this was unheard of and definitely not right for a school of high caliber. In the end I am hoping that something good comes out of it and everyone involved has something to learn from it.
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Paul,

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

At the time I wrote them the e-mail and given the events that preceded it, I was pretty sure my chances were next to nothing at this school. While being respectful I did express my feelings very clearly. I have admits from 5 other schools and I have accepted at another great school since I didn't want to wait another year.
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Graymatter sorry to hear that this happened to you.

But your story does bring up a very good point about the Admissions process in general, and in fact the situation is similar to that of a company hiring. Although they give out guidelines, deadlines, "rules", etc. they aren't actually bound to necessarily follow their own guidelines if it is not in their benefit. Unfortunately, the school having all the "power" if they get an offer that is significantly to their advantage (say, interest from a very strong candidate after the deadline) that it is in their interest then there is really nothing stopping them from doing so, except of course the interests of Transparency.

Thankfully though most schools in most cases are quite transparent about the process (even if they are quite secretive about how they have the admissions committee members evaluate candidates), for the same reason that businesses aim for transparency - i.e. it is in their interests.

But anyhow, you got into not one but FIVE other schools!!! (congrats) and a "Who needs them if they don't want me" attitude is probably better than anything you could tell them. ;)
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Wow, what a story... really unfair. Sorry to hear about that, but thanks for sharing.
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As someone above pointed out.. Do you really wanna go to a place where they clearly do not want or care much about you?

I think you will be much happier at any of the five other schools that accepted you..

Good luck on the rest of the way!

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