Visiting School with a Parent

Question

I'm plan on applying to some top 10 schools this Fall. I understand visiting a school can help me determine if a school is the right fit, but also show my interest to that school, help with essays, etc. If I brought my mother to the school visits with me, would that be perceived as a negative? I value my mother's opinion, but as a 27 year old woman, I don't want to give off the perception that I'm dependent on my parents.

I fully understand that I may be over thinking this. But any insight would be greatly appreciated.

I fully understand that I may be over thinking this. But any insight would be greatly appreciated.

domotron · Answer

I'm going to jump in and say it's pretty weird. I doubt schools will make a note necessarily and put a black mark against your name. However this is a professional degree and at this point parents probably shouldn't be involved in any decision making.

DefyingGravity · Answer

If you really want to bring her, you could do it. Perhaps she could hang out in the cafeteria or a nearby cafe while you attend the info session and then just accompany you on the tour. For things hosted my admissions, it would seem a bit weird to bring your mom. But just walking around campus, no one is likely to be paying attention to you.

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kanes · Answer

I have visited six top ten schools and have only seen parents once (Harvard). Honestly I thought it was a little odd and think our guide and adcom rep at the info session felt the same. Personally I don't think it comes of particularly well and is a little too reminiscent of high school students visiting colleges with their parents. I doubt the school you visit will take much note of it but it isn't exactly the image of an independent leader that most schools attest to be interested in.

bml1105 · Answer

Thanks everyone! That's what I was thinking too, I just needed some confirmation.

brandon432 · Answer

I've led about 30 tours and info sessions and seeing parents isn't all that uncommon. I'd guess that about 5% of prospective students bring a parent along. The only time I've ever thought it was weird was when one parent asked several questions during a lunch panel. If you value her opinion, bring her, but be judicious about which events she attends.

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