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Anyone else shares the feeling that what matters to me most is something I think they really wouldn't appreciate...
Ha! got a kick out of that...
You mean "financial security and upward mobility" might not be what they want? Dang.
Yea I feel like its going to be a struggle to walk the line of being genuine while also trying to appeal to admissions.
Nah, financial and job security are rarely what REALLY matters to a person, deep down. But I'm worried that if I dig deep and find out what really matters to me, it could be some personality trait that they don't like. For example, what if the answer is "so that everyone around me would approve of me", or "to spend time with my kids 24/7", or "I never want to fail". These might very well be what matters to certain people, but wouldn't convey the right msg - the first one would show deep down the person has no confidence, second one would show you probably won't go out and make impact in society, and third one would show... i don't know, not willing to take risk or something.
So, my questions is, if there's a conflict between what we think is the fundamental driving force of our actions and what we believe others would think of it, what do we do?