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Wow, interesting situation.
You do not have to disclose the misdemeanor in the job application but it will come out in the background check and based on a quick research it will be harder to find a job (which does not help a person without work experience)

One option is to try Canada where you would be safe from the record but without work experience it will be tough to get a job/move/etc

Another option is to heavily network and get a job with someone who trusts you and knows your personal record/quality/etc - which again would be tough without prior work experience.

Here is an interesting discussion: https://wiki.answers.com/Q/Can_you_get_a ... isdemeanor
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Interesting and scary situation to be in. But I'm sure with an MBA degree you could do much better than a $10 construction job...
I'm not sure about rules in states... But with an MBA, and an experience in handling family business you may have good shot at entrepreneurship. Why don't u start something on your own.. There will be lots of VCs who'd back you up, if you got some good idea irrespective of the background..
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Well, I am trying to start something on my own but then again that's easier said than done. I still can't tell if what I've been trying to start is merely a fluke thus far or actually going to be successful; I suppose it takes some time to figure that out. With that said, I am not entirely scared to death about my life being as I'm only 23 and, to be honest, I could always just be a truck driver or something like that. But all this hard work seems so pointless most days.

To the other guy that posted the link to the other discussion: dude that thread basically says I am entirely screwed lol. I guess it's true though, I mean that discussion is just putting it bluntly. As for the Canada thing, I am fairly certain Canadian employers still see what US employers see on Google. The misdemeanor is a big deal but the bigger deal is the charges that come up on google when someone google's my name. No hiding the name.
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Hi,
Don't feel so bad and beat yourself up. You may be able to change your name - I did, before I had a very traditional Middle Eastern sounding name and always got teased but after September 11th, it was terrible, so for $230 you go to your local courthouse and change your name, that takes care of the Google search. If you can bear changing the first and last, if not, just the last.

Also check out Sonia Ricotti's Unsinkable - https://www.onlinemeetingnow.com/seminar/?id=3c25d9258f
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Thanks for that suggestion but name changing has never been my strategy. Although I sometimes use my middle name as my last name to introduce myself to people these days, I avoid it as much as possible. I don't want to hide who I am and I think this is part of me. Certainly, it's not a good thing and not the best of times in my life but I don't think I should build myself up on hiding things about me. I don't know, at least for now, I am opposed to the whole name change idea. For better or for worse, I think this will always be a part of me.
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I forgot to mention something in my previous post. A former District Manager of mine did time in prison. After that he got into the biomed field, became a department manager, earned his MBA, and ironically he's married to an Attorney.
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I forgot to mention something in my previous post. A former District Manager of mine did time in prison. After that he got into the biomed field, became a department manager, earned his MBA, and ironically he's married to an Attorney.

Yeah but that sounds like an exception story. I was more so hoping for some immediate strategy that I should pursue in setting my life on a path. Then again, who knows, maybe some day I'll figure it out or maybe I won't..
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Dude.. After reading your other responses I personally think that it may be a good idea to go to a shrink,if you don't mind doing that...
There is just too much of negativity.

Almost hopeless at 23... I don't buy that...with good grades, good degree and good counseling you may just create your own 'exception' story...
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Dude.. After reading your other responses I personally think that it may be a good idea to go to a shrink,if you don't mind doing that...
There is just too much of negativity.

Almost hopeless at 23... I don't buy that...with good grades, good degree and good counseling you may just create your own 'exception' story...

Yeah seemingly everyone tells me to go to a shrink. See, at the risk of sounding overly cocky, I will say the following:

My only problem with a shrink is that I have never been to one but they're a joke to me. How will one fix any of my problems by taking more money away from me when making money (getting a career) is the problem in the first place?? Secondly, I am the argumentative kind and the kind that also has a major in philosophy and took tons of classes on logic and arguing and all that. I can't see any shrink actually managing to get past any arguments that I will counter what he says with. Even if he does get past it, I'll find another logic to counter what he says.

A for the good grades, I guess they're ok, they're not outstanding. I had a 3.85 in undergrad and I'll probably graduate with around a 3.35 to a 3.45 in my MBA. Not terrible, not outstanding. Granted, the degree itself is notable.
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Dude.. After reading your other responses I personally think that it may be a good idea to go to a shrink,if you don't mind doing that...
There is just too much of negativity.

Almost hopeless at 23... I don't buy that...with good grades, good degree and good counseling you may just create your own 'exception' story...

Yeah seemingly everyone tells me to go to a shrink. See, at the risk of sounding overly cocky, I will say the following:

My only problem with a shrink is that I have never been to one but they're a joke to me. How will one fix any of my problems by taking more money away from me when making money (getting a career) is the problem in the first place?? Secondly, I am the argumentative kind and the kind that also has a major in philosophy and took tons of classes on logic and arguing and all that. I can't see any shrink actually managing to get past any arguments that I will counter what he says with. Even if he does get past it, I'll find another logic to counter what he says.

A for the good grades, I guess they're ok, they're not outstanding. I had a 3.85 in undergrad and I'll probably graduate with around a 3.35 to a 3.45 in my MBA. Not terrible, not outstanding. Granted, the degree itself is notable.

If logic could be instilled by taking classes, we wouldnt hear/see so much illogical stuff all the time... :twisted:

As for as 'the problem in first place' is considered, I think what you are looking at is not the root cause...and thats where the professional joker (read:shrink) will come into picture... And remember, unique works for MBA essays.. but in world there are over 6 billion people, and surely you wont be unique in terms of being argumentative/logical or even aggressive...
I dont think that a long-timer shrink wouldnt have seen an argumentative or aggressive clients before..

seriously dude.. if everyone asked you to do it... there must be some substance to it...

But yeah... well its your problem at the end of the day, and you gotta be the one deciding how to deal with it.. so.. that's all from my end.... (Of course, since I'm not charging :P )

But interesting story nonetheless; Good luck!
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You're right, I am not looking at the root cause. But if I start looking at the root cause, I would merely discover that I neither have a time machine nor is there such a thing. Thus, the root cause would then be unfixable. Plus, the problem with me is when someone tells me I'm overly negative and that's my problem, I will accept it and I realize that. But then I will simply tell them it is unfortunate that the sequence of events, which has been my life, has led me to believe that reality is overly negative and thus unless those sequence of events can be changes, my negativity is unlikely to have a reason to change.

And yes an experienced shrink probably has dealt with people ten times worse than me. I am not much for aggressive when it comes to arguing; I think that's just stupid and that's when one starts saying listen I'm right because I am saying so. I hate that. I guess in a way I am almost resistant to allow myself to succeed. Now, that's just unfortunate.
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That's a tough situation.
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That's a tough situation.

Yep, it is, in fact, a sh** situation. Don't even get yourself into it.
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