jlola21
An alumni at a local event said Duke was very clique-ish, kind of like high school because well - there isn't much to do in Durham. She was married when she went to Duke, and said that her only pet peeve was that type of social environment. Did you get that sense?
My friend is married and he says that he is having the time of his life. I've seen video footage from the campout that makes me believe him.

His wife is a member of Fuqua Partners, which puts on a ton of activities and is a very social group. In fact, my friend and I were out to dinner/hanging out and got back around 10pm on Monday night and she was still out hanging out with her new friends.
I didn't experience a cliquie-ish feeling, but I was only there for 2 1/2 days. Part of this may be because many students waive out of 1 or more core classes (allowing 1Y's to mingle with 2Y's in their first term). Additionally, students are pretty involved in student organizations, which means that students interact with others outside of their 70 person "cluster." Team Fuqua forces people to interact and be social. One can't get through Duke simply by being a brainiac and studying on his/her own.