lanter1
Just got the call and I am in...would not give scholly info on phone but will be mailed with our info packet...now it's time to make the big decisions (Yale or Darden). Nervous, any advice?
That's a toughie, lanter. First of all, congrats! It's great that you have an opportunity to decide between these great schools.
I think the most important thing that you have to decide is which school can offer you more opportunities in your post MBA field. Yale SOM carries a lot of weight in its brand name; however, the school places its graduates mostly in northeast and financial services/non-profit areas. I'd say Darden is a more well-rounded school: it's great in general management, places a lot of people in IB, consulting and even marketing.
That being said, Darden's method of teaching is strictly case-based. Are you OK with that way of learning? Plus, Darden is famous for (unnecessarily?) rigorous curriculum. When I visited, married students were saying that they had a very hard time finding 1-2 hours for their families, and that's over the weekend! Knowing that you and your wife are expecting, would you be comfortable not seeing your family for days?
These are all hard questions but I think if you answer them honestly, you might be able to make your decision rather quickly.

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