a) To keep the mean the same, the average of the numbers we add to the list must equal the mean. For instance, for the data set {1, 5, 9}, the mean is 5. If we add 5 to this list, the mean of the new list {1, 5, 5, 9} will also be 5. If we add 4 and 6 to the list (note the average of 4 and 6 is 5), we will obtain {1, 4, 5, 6, 9}, and the mean remains unchanged.
b) To decrease the mean, we simply add numbers whose average is less than the mean of our data set. For instance, for the same data set {1, 5, 9}, if we add 4 to the list (which is less than the mean), we will obtain {1, 4, 5, 9}. The mean of this set is 4.75. If we add 3 and 6 to this list (note the average of 3 and 6 is 4.5, which is less than the mean), we will obtain {1, 3, 5, 6, 9}. The mean of this new list is 4.8.
c) To increase the mean, we add numbers whose average is greater than the mean of the data set. For instance, if we add 6 to the list {1, 5, 9}, the mean of the new list {1, 5, 6, 9} is 5.25. If we add 4 and 7 to this list (the average of which is 5.5), we will obtain {1, 4, 5, 7, 9}, and the mean of this new list is 5.2.
d) If we have a set of n elements with mean m and standard deviation s, adding elements that are s√(1+1/n) more or less than the mean will increase the standard deviation. For example, for the set {10 , 12}, we have n = 2, m = 11 and s = 1; therefore for this set, s√(1+1/n) corresponds to √(1+1/2) = s√(3/2), which is roughly 1.22. Adding 12.1 to this set will not increase the standard deviation since 12.1 is less than 11 + 1.22 = 12.22; but anything greater than 12.22 will.
e) To decrease the standard deviation, we should add number(s) close to the mean. For instance, for the same list {1, 5, 9}, if we add 6 to the list, the standard deviation of {1, 5, 6, 9} is about 2.86. The number that will decrease the standard deviation the most is, of course, the mean. If we add the mean (which is 5) to the list {1, 5, 9}, the standard deviation of the new list {1, 5, 5, 9} is about 2.83. There is no way we can decrease the standard deviation more than that by adding a single value. That being said, as you will see below, there is no hard and fast rule about the exact numbers to select that will definitely reduce the standard deviation, and finding those numbers would require some pretty intense math.
f) Keeping the standard deviation the same is complicated business. If we are adding only one value to the list, we would have to solve a quadratic equation, which is far beyond the scope of the GMAT, and we will obtain two solutions. Any value other than those two solutions will change the standard deviation. For the set {1, 5, 9}, the two values that will keep the standard deviation the same are 5 - (8√2)/3 and 5 + (8√2)/3. If we add any one of those values, the standard deviation will remain the same. If we add a value between those two values, the standard deviation will decrease, and if we add a value that is not between those two values, the standard deviation will increase.