kman3b18
Completely agree with your second paragraph, not so much your first. I am a white American, but grew up fairly poor and dealt with family medical issues, thing I connected a little bit to my professional arc in my MBA essays, but I really wouldn't change it to instead be born with a silver spoon. For acceptance metrics, sure, but I value who I am as a person and how that experience has shaped my outlook and worldview today.
Be who you are, take pride in it, and make no apologies.
Oh absolutely, I agree entirely with you. There was a point in my life where I was ashamed of my background, and tried to bury it as much as possible. As I grew older, though, I realized there was no shame in any of it and that I should instead take great pride in what I accomplished. It's kind of strange to describe, but it really does instill in you a deep-seated sense of fulfillment, and I wouldn't trade the experience for a thing in hindsight.
I'm just speaking solely to chances of admissions success here, and on that front it's just the harsh reality of the process. Take, for example, my age, ethnicity, basic work experience, GPA, GMAT, and essay-writing ability. Now substitute the state school for an Ivy League school, substitute the small law firm for a white shoe firm, and make my father a CBS alum instead of a retired blue collar worker living off of disability. Do I get an offer of admission, then? Perhaps so, perhaps I still get dinged. But I would bet dollars to pennies that the chances of me ending up in the interview stack, as opposed to the garbage receptacle, would be far higher under that scenario. Again, though, that is what it is and I knew all of that long before I started to apply. I'm at peace with the rejection, and just hoping one of my other apps will come through.
As a general matter, I think the mentality in place with drafts for sports leagues needs to be put into effect by applicants going through the MBA admissions process. In other words, it doesn't matter if almost all of the schools you apply to hate you, think you are going nowhere, that your background is unimpressive, etc... all you need is one "yes." With one "yes," the rest becomes meaningless background noise.
Some correct assumptions. However; you are choosing to ignore the fact that someone who has come from nothing can go to the ivy league and then a top firm. Maybe lower chances, but maybe not depending on your background.