onsomniac
You may originally think that it's a no-brainer and may say to attend UCLA, but here's the additional circumstances:
- My fiancee was accepted into UCSD's PHD program and will be attending there also this fall. The idea of going to the same university and living together is tempting. In addition, she would take care of the living expenses, which would also help financially.
- Obviously, if I go to UCLA, we will have to live apart and deal with a long-distance. In addition, each of us will have to deal with separate housing and living expenses, therefore placing more of a financial burden on us.
- If I went to UCSD, I can be practically debt-free upon graduation.
- I do enjoy San Diego/La Jolla's environment better than LA.
- If I attend UCLA, we plan on visiting each other pretty often on weekends (dependent on how busy our schedules are during the weekends).
Look at the bright side: it's not like you're going to be on opposite sides of the country. As someone who's spent a lot of time in Southern California, I agree, La Jolla is freaking nice, but not nice enough to pass up on an Anderson MBA (Westwood is pretty awesome too!). Yes living apart is less than ideal, but with UCLA's no class on Fridays, you'll be able to head down the I-5 to La Jolla for early starts to your weekend. I visited my brother fairly often when he was at Anderson, and if he had time on the weekends to host my lame ass, then I'm guessing you'll have some freedom on the weekends.
Then there's the experience. Chances are your Anderson classmates are a diverse group of individuals who have accomplished a lot to this point and will enhance your B-school experience. A school like Rady that enrolls about 60 students in the incoming class can't hope to expose you to as many new people as Anderson, and to me, that's a big part of going full-time for an MBA.
Last point: B-school only lasts 21 months, and you'll only be on campus for 18 months once you factor in the internship. That's a very short period of time when you think about it. Plus, and I'm half-kidding about this, half-not, you wouldn't want to resent your fiancee later in life for being the reason you didn't go to Anderson, and it also wouldn't be fair to her if you brought it up in the heat of an argument.
Congrats on the admits! Best of luck with your decision.