Adding another perspective to Asimov's post:
Congratulations - seems a complex case. You are probably better off with Mcdonough if you want to keep living in DC after graduation. Yes, You will probably have fewer learning experiences and less interest/incentive to mingle with your Georogetown friends who will be out of town by simply being in your comfort zone (I hope this makes sense - let me know if I am not explaining it well) but you will still have plenty of opportunities and group projects.
I think financially, you are better of staying in DC and not paying double rent and double living expenses.
The 3 schools are well balanced in terms of their offers but the rent part makes Georgetown better. (analysis follows)
Some hard numbers:(Average Salary | Employment Rate | Probable Salary for the first 12 months after graduation (product of the two))
$101,604 | 58.5% | $59K - Smith
$114,744 | 67.9% | $78K - Mcdonough
$131,906 | 81.5% | $108K - Darden
Source (US News)
So, you could be as much as $50K better off in terms of going to Darden vs Smith just in the first 12 months.
Then over 5 years, that's harder to predict but I think probability wise, you will be as much as $150K off (131-101=30*5)
Darden vs. Mcdonough30K over the first year and potentially $75K over 5 years (see calc above). This should address the scholarship concerns but living expenses could add up to $75K over 2 years or be a half; depends on your lifestyle. I feel it is a wash with a slight advantage for Mcdonough if you are planning the non-profit track which often has lower salaries.
Questions for you:Are you planning to have kids in the next 5 years?
That will come into play and you want to be close to some family when that happens, so you don't want to move to NYC if your family is in DC or vice versa. Having a lesser debt hanging over you, means faster repayment and less stress when the little guys show up.
Can you be happy at Georgetown and not regret it?
I think I would be but what about you? Will you be able to live with it for the rest of your life? You had a chance to attend Darden and chose a diff program?
Worst case? People have dropped out of bschool before. Dropping out of Georgetown will be easier than Darden if you have to. The sunk costs are less. Thus it is a safer bet though you could be absolutely miserable on your own in UVA missing your home, husband, friends, etc. may drop out as well (unlikely since you will be super busy)
If you are going to stay in DC after graduation, Georgetown is probably the better bet. You will have better chances by being local + alum network but I would be careful and research if the companies you are interested in recruit on campus at either UVA or Georgetown.
Finally, Darden has a few EMBA campuses in DC - would that make sense for you as a compromise?
I will assume that not since that' s a completely different experience but thought I'd bring it up.