Wow- thank you all so very much for your time and well thought out posts. Not coming from an MBA laden or family, everyone is giving me the side eye for even considering turning down a full ride or scholarship money. All of this makes me feel a lot better/gives me more data for my explanations to them (adding this to my bookmarks of "links to send my parents to explain why its ok to go into debt,"
).
If I decide to stay in marketing, Georgetown has a very newly launched center (Georgetown Institute for Consumer Research) that is a draw/could help with career placement in the marketing analytics sector. Since it is so new, it is hard to tell how the relationships are developing with partners, but they do have fellowships for students that interest me. However, if I even think about pursuing consulting, Darden is superior by a landslide. A lot of firms that recruit at Smith and McDonough primarily do so for their federal sector consulting, which is not something I am interested in (my husband is in that field already). I also do not want to be a non-profit consultant quite yet. I feel strongly based on personal experience that spending time developing skills that are profit driven, not mission driven, helps one become a truly effective leader in the non-profit world.
In terms of long term (kid) questions; I am not one of those girls who says "I have to married and have kids by x age," but as I am a woman that has a limited time frame (
), in the 5 years after school it is quite likely we will want to start a family (while I continue to lean in, of course).
Also, I suppose my spouse and I are a bit used to the MBA relationship lifestyle; he works relatively late/has client dinners a few nights a week and I am also am a dance teacher/ performer who has rehearsals and classes many nights and weekends. Staying in DC would just be the norm in terms of time spent together; Charlottesville would really only take away the late weeknights and add to some travel time on the weekend.
As you can see, I still am a bit torn and going to do some serious contemplating the next few weeks. I am planning on attending and bringing my husband to admit weekends in April for Georgetown and Darden so we can get a feel for both schools. Hopefully seeing both schools in action/meeting potential classmates will help make the decision much easier.
Thank you all again for your wise advice!