Just to answer a few of the questions:
-I am indeed leaning towards the US schools
-Career switcher from engineering - I can probably get where I want to go from any of the schools listed, but I won't claim to know exactly what I want to do with my career while I'm still in my 20's.
-I agree that in the long run $130k is nothing, but in the short term it is A LOT. I don't want to be limited to take a certain job just because I have to cover my loan payments.
-The cost I mentioned is purely tuition and fees, I'll be paying for living expenses with savings and have purposefully assumed living expenses to be relatively similar to make the numbers easier to crunch.
-I applied to this set of schools with location of school and availability of scholarship in mind. I applied to schools with locations where I would like to spend the next year or two (a.k.a. not Connecticut or New Hampshire, no offense). Also, I have family in the mid-west and the south. I also chose them because my profile is more competitive vs the general applicant pool, which did yield good admit and scholarship results.
-I'm looking for more of a collaborative experience and less of a competitive one.
-I don't plan on buying a $1M house.
So, yea, you are all right, but I'm still torn between the future potential and the immediate burden. Consider this, Bloomberg* estimates the career total earnings from salary of a Kellogg MBA grad to be $3,069,620. Just as a comparison, an Owen MBA grad is estimated to have a career total earnings from salary of just $2,562,743. A couple of notes on this: both are more than enough for me, but secondly, consider that I borrow $130k now and just invest it - if I make just 5% over the next 30 years I would have gained more than investing in the Kellogg MBA.
(assuming compound interest, =130000*(1.05)^30, $561,852 + $2,562,743 = $3,124,596. Yea, it's a rough calculation)
Lots to consider. Glad to have your input! Keep it coming!
*https://www.bloomberg.com/bw/slideshows/2012-06-11/top-b-schools-for-mba-pay#slide1