mohammadalsheikh
Dear pqhai ,
thank you for nice explanation, but I need a help in the following issue :
I can distinguish when to use "who" or " whom" using many ways that you mentioned one of them above, but I have a problem in produce the sentence , for example :
I am going to see the doctor. The doctor delivered me when I was born.
I am going to see the doctor who delivered me when I was born. __R__
Jessica met a new friend. Jessica liked her friend very much.
Jessica met a new friend whom she liked very much.
in the first example : I applied what I learned from the grammar book, but as we use whom because the noun phrase is present as objective.
in the second example I do care for Jessica not for her friend.
so please to help me understand the concept.
thank you
in first example, the answer to the question, "who delivered you?" is "
he". "He" delivered me. So we use "who". Another way to think of it is,
subject (doctor) is the doer of the sentence. the doctor delivered me.
in second example, the answer to the question, "who did Jessica like?", is "
him". Jessica met "him". Another way to think of it is, the subject (friend) of the sentence is used as an object of a verb (liked). this person is
the receiver. of the sentence. You don't care about Jessica, but you are mainly concerned about the friend she met, whom she liked very much.