When preparing for the GMAT, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comparing your progress to that of others. You might think, “My coworker prepared for two weeks and aced the GMAT. Why am I still struggling after two months?” This kind of thinking can be discouraging and counterproductive. The truth is that everyone’s journey is different, and success comes at its own pace.
Avoid the Comparison Trap
Theodore Roosevelt wisely said, “Comparison is the thief of joy.” Comparing your preparation timeline to someone else’s can rob you of your confidence and focus. Every test-taker comes to the GMAT with a unique set of skills, prior knowledge, and learning speed. Some people might need only a few weeks to prepare, while others may require months of dedicated study.
Instead of focusing on how quickly someone else achieved their score, ask yourself: Am I making progress? Am I mastering the material at a pace that works for me?
Go at Your Own Pace
While it’s helpful to learn from others’ successful strategies, trying to replicate someone else’s entire preparation approach can be a mistake. People absorb and retain information at different speeds, and your starting point may not be the same as theirs.
For example, if a coworker shared a great time-management technique or study schedule, consider adapting it to fit your needs. But don’t feel pressured to follow their exact timeline. The key is to create a study plan that works for you—one that allows you to fully understand and retain the material without unnecessary stress.
The Role of Healthy Pressure
A little self-imposed pressure can be motivating, but too much can turn into a roadblock. Feeling anxious about how long your preparation is taking can actually hinder your ability to learn. Instead, focus on steady improvement and celebrate small wins along the way. Remember, the GMAT is not a race—it’s a challenge that rewards perseverance and strategic effort.
Your Journey, Your Success
Ultimately, the time you spend preparing for the GMAT is your time. Whether it takes you weeks or months, what matters most is achieving the score that aligns with your goals. Success on the GMAT isn’t about speed—it’s about mastering the material and performing confidently on test day.
So, take a deep breath, trust your process, and remember that comparisons won’t get you to your goal, but consistent effort and focus will.
Warmest regards,
Scott