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FROM Insead Admissions Blog: Getting to a Deeper Level When There’s No Time |
Everyone who has been through an MBA knows that this is one of “the best years of your life” – from the academic education in the classroom to the social life outside of it and everything in between. I don’t think anyone would argue the thing that makes this so true by far, are the people. We spend every waking hour around each other – from the morning coffee chit-chatting about the day ahead followed by classroom time where we get to hear glimpses of each other’s past professional experiences. We then spend a further couple of hours in our study groups feverishly working through the week’s assignments after which we rush off our separate ways to what evening hours we still have left for the numerous additional activities we seem to think we have time for – an industry speaker event, soccer…er, I mean “football” club, organizing that upcoming PE event next week, filling out job applications, reading the 20-page case for tomorrow’s strategy class, or letting loose on the nightclub dance floor. Whatever it is, we are always doing something, which may seem great, but it always feels like we’re moving from one thing to the next, never getting a chance to breathe or even just stop and reflect about the world around us. And when you do manage to find yourself speaking with another breathing living human being, it’s difficult to get beyond the generalities of “how have you been” “what are you doing this weekend / what did you do last weekend” “it’s a busy week, isn’t it?” before one of you is rushing off to the next item slotted in the calendar. So in this year that’s rushing by before our eyes, how do we find the time to get beyond the surface level “how’s it going” generalities and get to real substantiated conversations? In an increasingly digital world, we are already minimizing face-to-face time with those around us and in an environment where time is the most precious commodity of all, turning face-to-face time into real human connection is even tougher. One of our professors asked if students would be interested if he were to arrange weekly lunches where students would get together, sit down, and have an hour dedicated to getting to know one another better. Almost everyone raised their hands. His response was – “Well, why aren’t you doing this already?” It made me question the same thing – it seems we all want that deeper level of connection, yet I find myself often having the same conversations over and over with many of the same people complaining about how busy we are or what’s the next weekend getaway destination. It just seems we never have the time to sit down and naturally allow that superficial conversation to build into something more. ![]() We spend so much time around each other, practically 24 hours every day, and yet how much do we really know about each other? Think about the person who sits next to you in class – how much do you really know about their favorite hobbies, what motivates them in life, their family, or even the amazing personal and professional experiences that brought them to INSEAD. Maybe you know what country they’re from, that they used to work in consulting, and even managed to climb a major mountain peak last year. But maybe what you don’t know is that back home they spend their free time volunteering at an orphanage or supporting a local children’s school because basic education access is not a given like it is in your home country. Or maybe that next mountain peak you can’t wait to tackle is their spiritual haven and has a significance beyond anything you’ve realized. Or maybe their parents were one of the thousands laid off in that business case we read in class the other day and was a major turning point in their lives. But you’ll never know because all you talk about is the Singapore haze, class schedules, travel plans to Bali, and class assignment details. All of us have a story to tell and that’s why we got into INSEAD, but very few of us have been able to share our stories. So how do we do it when everyone is running around like loose chickens in a thunderstorm? While studies have shown that intense moments can bring people closer together and this year at INSEAD would definitely classify, I believe it’s not enough as so many of us are constantly being shuffled around. We are flying off to a new destination every weekend and then every two months, many of us will be uprooted and resettled to a different campus. While it’s an intense period nonetheless, the constant change makes it difficult to build those deeper connections as we don’t spend the entirety of the intense period with each other all the way through. So my recommendation to get to that deeper level: just make the conscious effort and time to do so. It’s really that simple, but I know not as easy as it sounds. We are all extremely busy today and when we graduate from INSEAD, we’ll be just as busy tomorrow. But whether we’re in business school or back into the “real world”, the challenge of making deep real personal connections with those around us will always persist. The only solution I’ve come across so far is to just make time and be conscious about it. Get to school early before class starts and meet a colleague for coffee, or use the usual hour free during lunch or dinner. Sometimes the best times are those late night chats with your roommates while you’re just hanging out in the living room. Regardless of when it happens, it’s up to you to make it happen. Instead of always talking about last week’s party or this afternoon’s class schedule, try talking about what’s going on in the world. Economies and governments are changing and with that so are the implications these external forces can have on all of our lives. Ask someone to explain how the political system works in their country. Learn from a classmate about the dynamics of an industry you may not be familiar with. Discuss a social issue – maybe it’s controversial, maybe it’s not, but I guarantee with all the diversity of students around, you’ll learn a thing or two about how differently people see the world (and maybe even question your own ideals). Ask someone about their childhood or previous life experiences – maybe you’ll bond with someone who also lost someone close to them or you’ll better understand certain aspects of that person due to their upbringing and expectations from family. The matter of fact is, there are 500 very different perspectives of the world sitting next to you – take some time to hear out at least a few of them and your own life will only be the better for it. |
FROM Insead Admissions Blog1: Getting to a Deeper Level When There’s No Time |
Everyone who has been through an MBA knows that this is one of “the best years of your life” – from the academic education in the classroom to the social life outside of it and everything in between. I don’t think anyone would argue the thing that makes this so true by far, are the people. We spend every waking hour around each other – from the morning coffee chit-chatting about the day ahead followed by classroom time where we get to hear glimpses of each other’s past professional experiences. We then spend a further couple of hours in our study groups feverishly working through the week’s assignments after which we rush off our separate ways to what evening hours we still have left for the numerous additional activities we seem to think we have time for – an industry speaker event, soccer…er, I mean “football” club, organizing that upcoming PE event next week, filling out job applications, reading the 20-page case for tomorrow’s strategy class, or letting loose on the nightclub dance floor. Whatever it is, we are always doing something, which may seem great, but it always feels like we’re moving from one thing to the next, never getting a chance to breathe or even just stop and reflect about the world around us. And when you do manage to find yourself speaking with another breathing living human being, it’s difficult to get beyond the generalities of “how have you been” “what are you doing this weekend / what did you do last weekend” “it’s a busy week, isn’t it?” before one of you is rushing off to the next item slotted in the calendar. So in this year that’s rushing by before our eyes, how do we find the time to get beyond the surface level “how’s it going” generalities and get to real substantiated conversations? In an increasingly digital world, we are already minimizing face-to-face time with those around us and in an environment where time is the most precious commodity of all, turning face-to-face time into real human connection is even tougher. One of our professors asked if students would be interested if he were to arrange weekly lunches where students would get together, sit down, and have an hour dedicated to getting to know one another better. Almost everyone raised their hands. His response was – “Well, why aren’t you doing this already?” It made me question the same thing – it seems we all want that deeper level of connection, yet I find myself often having the same conversations over and over with many of the same people complaining about how busy we are or what’s the next weekend getaway destination. It just seems we never have the time to sit down and naturally allow that superficial conversation to build into something more. ![]() We spend so much time around each other, practically 24 hours every day, and yet how much do we really know about each other? Think about the person who sits next to you in class – how much do you really know about their favorite hobbies, what motivates them in life, their family, or even the amazing personal and professional experiences that brought them to INSEAD. Maybe you know what country they’re from, that they used to work in consulting, and even managed to climb a major mountain peak last year. But maybe what you don’t know is that back home they spend their free time volunteering at an orphanage or supporting a local children’s school because basic education access is not a given like it is in your home country. Or maybe that next mountain peak you can’t wait to tackle is their spiritual haven and has a significance beyond anything you’ve realized. Or maybe their parents were one of the thousands laid off in that business case we read in class the other day and was a major turning point in their lives. But you’ll never know because all you talk about is the Singapore haze, class schedules, travel plans to Bali, and class assignment details. All of us have a story to tell and that’s why we got into INSEAD, but very few of us have been able to share our stories. So how do we do it when everyone is running around like loose chickens in a thunderstorm? While studies have shown that intense moments can bring people closer together and this year at INSEAD would definitely classify, I believe it’s not enough as so many of us are constantly being shuffled around. We are flying off to a new destination every weekend and then every two months, many of us will be uprooted and resettled to a different campus. While it’s an intense period nonetheless, the constant change makes it difficult to build those deeper connections as we don’t spend the entirety of the intense period with each other all the way through. So my recommendation to get to that deeper level: just make the conscious effort and time to do so. It’s really that simple, but I know not as easy as it sounds. We are all extremely busy today and when we graduate from INSEAD, we’ll be just as busy tomorrow. But whether we’re in business school or back into the “real world”, the challenge of making deep real personal connections with those around us will always persist. The only solution I’ve come across so far is to just make time and be conscious about it. Get to school early before class starts and meet a colleague for coffee, or use the usual hour free during lunch or dinner. Sometimes the best times are those late night chats with your roommates while you’re just hanging out in the living room. Regardless of when it happens, it’s up to you to make it happen. Instead of always talking about last week’s party or this afternoon’s class schedule, try talking about what’s going on in the world. Economies and governments are changing and with that so are the implications these external forces can have on all of our lives. Ask someone to explain how the political system works in their country. Learn from a classmate about the dynamics of an industry you may not be familiar with. Discuss a social issue – maybe it’s controversial, maybe it’s not, but I guarantee with all the diversity of students around, you’ll learn a thing or two about how differently people see the world (and maybe even question your own ideals). Ask someone about their childhood or previous life experiences – maybe you’ll bond with someone who also lost someone close to them or you’ll better understand certain aspects of that person due to their upbringing and expectations from family. The matter of fact is, there are 500 very different perspectives of the world sitting next to you – take some time to hear out at least a few of them and your own life will only be the better for it. |
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