You have a very interesting profile and while some schools will be more interested in it than others, your varied experiences will actually help you given your age. Since you are well above the average at these programs, if you had a traditional job, adcom would wonder why you waited so long to apply.
While I would want to know a bit more about your experiences in order to give you a better evaluation, Haas, SOM and Anderson are great choices for you and you have a good chance there. It is also worth applying to H/S/W, though given your profile and goals, either Stanford or Wharton would be the ones I would target.
If you are considering this year, go for R2 if you can make it. How much progress have you made? Applying in R3 would cause some more questions, since you have waited so many years to apply it would seem you should be able to get apps in by R2.
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