I’m not going to rip you anymore because you’re new and curious about the job, but let me clarify something. Sending 50 coffee chat emails is the bare minimum at any school let alone the job itself, that wasn’t the issue.
My point was that the recruiting rules are restrictive in specific ways, and you reframed it without asking me what those specific ways were as ‘if you can’t handle sending 50 emails it’s not for you,’ which completely missed what I was actually saying.
I’d go back and re-read your original comment. The way you phrased it comes off as condescending, and that kind of tone rubs people the wrong way fast. It’s worth getting a second pair of eyes on how you come across, especially before recruiting. I’ve seen some of your Reddit comments too — the unintentional hardo vibe shows up there as well, and that kind of energy can hurt you more than you think. No one in the job acts this way.