I wonder if "sensitive" school X truly says "we dont accept anyone who ranked us #3 or below". No school has ever said they dont accept rankings below two or three, that is something that seems to have been construed here on the boards.
My guess is that when they say they
do take rankings into consideration, its part of the 'Holistic' process they all talk about, not a hard fast rule, for example:
Admissions Lady at "sensitive" School X - "Hmm, this applicant didnt do that great of a job answering the 'Why school X' essay... I wonder where this kid ranked us?" *checks application* "yep, he put us as 5th, probably just for the extra $25 cost, he doesnt really care about this school does he? Not worth our time."
Same school X looking at another applicant with same stats - "wow, this girl really wants to come to our school, her essay shows that she kows a lot about our programs, she ranked us as #5, but if theres a chance she doesnt get into her top 4, we would definitely take her, no reason to turn her down"
my guess is just that all of us did less research, visits, effort, essay revision etc. for our 4th 5th and 6th schools, which is pretty natural. While this might work with a safety school, the consortium schools are all really great top ranked schools, they can probably see this difference, and when the ranking you give confirms it, they probably push you aside.
If your essays, visits, and other efforts you made show otherwise, I bet the ranking is much less detrimental.