Okay, so basically sounds like most American MBAs wouldn't speed up their decision for anyone? I guess I should have realized that before but I really thought that decision date was '
at the latest' as opposed to '
you will hear on this date and not before' --do they really make their decisions all in one day? Frustrating to think they have their response ready two weeks before but just wait for this date to send them out...
Anyway, sounds like the best bet then is to ask the european program for an extension ---yikes, I have no idea how to phrase that so that they don't just tell me to go fly a kite

--has anyone ever asked any program for an extension on the decision/deposit date?? The deposit is HUGE so if I send it in, there's no turning back...
Thanks again for all the advice!