Let's be precise, not vibes-based. The only conduct rules on this forum are no obscenity and no personal attacks on members or groups. There's no rule requiring posts to be constructive, supportive, or comfortable to read. That's a preference, not a policy, and citing "decorum" doesn't make it one.
"They" is not directed to a specific person(s). Critiquing how a school runs its process is the reason this subforum exists. If evaluating an institution counts as a personal attack now, half the threads here need deleting.
And "accept it and move on" is describing the opposite of what I did. I said I'm glad to be enrolling elsewhere. That's acceptance. What it isn't is silence, and nothing in the rules says I owe anyone that. Kudos to the people who had a smooth ride with Marshall. I didn't, and I'm not walking it back to keep the thread cozy.
Fight On Y'all!