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Thank you for the thoughtful response! :-D

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One more thing - to be clear, the consultant you are speaking about is NOT an Amerasia consultant.

Yes, this is NOT an Amerasia consultant or anyone who has responded here.

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If the expectation is a 48 hour turnaround time, and she has acknowledged that was in fact her understanding, then she needs to stick with it.

However, the reality is that you need to find out what is going on behind the scenes. I would encourage you to manage the situation by doing this - speak to her on the phone and ask her what her limitations are, and how you can help her through the issue. It might be a squirmish conversation, but passive communication via email is a killer. For example - is she having personal problems? Technical issues? Try to determine if she is overwhelmed. Try to determine is if it something you can help with - perhaps putting all your questions into one email, or setting a weekly call to get her on the same page. Get it out in the open, and don't let emotion creep into the equation. Just maintain a cool composure, and that will let her maintain hers.

Would doing this over email be fine? I've never called up out of the blue as we "schedule" our phone chats (we've had 3 thus far).

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When you do speak to your consultant, make sure you stress the material impact it has on you. For example - if she missed a deadline and that f-ed up your weekend planning - then you need to explain that and the effect it had on the rest of your week. But also consider this - if there is no material impact, then ask her if she needs more time. Tell her that it's okay if it is 4 days, rather than 2. The main point should be that she needs to tell you if it is going to be late! In turn, you will understand as long as it does not have a material impact. You are human, she is human, and **** happens.

While she hasn't missed an app deadline, there was an instance when I submitted my resume and wanted feedback so I could prepare it and move onto essays for the HBS app with two weeks left, but I didn't receive a response for several days. In that instance, she wrote back several days later with a response stating she was sick which is completely understandable, but it would have been nice to know as I just waited. Just a brief, "I'm sick so I will get back to you later" would have been nice, as it affected my other processes.
I ended up hiring an hourly person at another firm for additional help to get more HBS specific insight on an essay as well.

When I changed a school choice for the future, she seemed audibly annoyed as well and never got back on how I could strengthen my position for Stanford.
I hate to escalate or address it too directly either, since it's nothing personal and she's good at her job. I'm afraid doing so would ruin the working relationship if I'm stuck working with her.

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If you want a coaching template, I like using this model -
    Define your expectation, explain the deviation from that expectation, describe its impact on you/your app, get her side of the story, now collaboratively set a new and reasonable expectation, get agreement, follow up on it in a week, two weeks, etc. If she **** the bed again, then escalate.

I will try this. Again, I would not complain if I had not spent almost $10 grand for the services, and it was not important for my future. I wanted to be sure I was not demanding too much through this forum. I appreciate her help with my HBS app, but I really wish at this point I could try elsewhere if this type of service is not standard. Thank you again Paul~! :lol:
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Sounds tough. My suggestion is that if you are stuck in a contract with a specific firm, maybe then ask for a change of consultants. Even if the quality control of the service at that firm may be lacking, there are for sure consultants who work there who will take their job more seriously. And I think that with such problems (especially if you are 'stuck'), if you take a non-confrontational way, and approach the company asking to change to a consultant who is known to be a bit more reliable, etc, you may be able to "save" your work with them, and get the most out of it, in what is a less than ideal situation.
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I am really sorry to know about your situation. Since other consultants have already provided their valuable insight on this issue , I will not provide you any more advice . Also, I am hoping that by now ( it’s almost a week since you posted this) you must have arrived at some resolution to the problem.
However, I would like to use this forum to offer my perspective on some of your questions/ doubts.

"I understand that she is busy but is this normal? Am I expecting too much? "

No it is not at all normal, and you are NOT expecting too much. In fact, you are being too nice.

"I imagined the process would be like having a personal coach to let me know what is next on the agenda and when I need to complete it by.
You “imagined “it right. Partnering with an admission consultant entails getting personal coaching/guidance, setting deadlines, and honoring them. However, if for some unavoidable reason, we (admission consultants) are not able to adhere to the deadlines, we are obligated to notify the applicants rather than having them make guesses if we are sick or overwhelmed with assignments. We are there to help them with the application process, and not add to their stress.

"I'm worried if I do get a refund, if the firm could try and sabotage my chances."


It is sad situation that at a time when you should be focusing only on your apps, you have been compelled to worry about so many other things – partial refund of your money, fear of sabotage by the big firm you have partnered with.

"Please advise … if I'm overreacting."

No, you are not at all overreacting. As stated earlier, once you sign up with a company, your consultant is expected to be equally involved in the process and guide/ coach you at every step of the way.

I hope and wish that the issue has been resolved by now.

Wishing you all the best with your application process for the remaining five schools,

Poonam