Thanks sjain and wschaeff. I've heard about the Fuqua partners cooking meals for new parents, unfortunately, our lil' man will be about three months old when we move to Durham, so we'll miss out on that opportunity.
As for financial aid, I wouldn't read too much into that financial aid email. You have to fill out a FAFSA and apply for student loans, so they probably are just encouraging you to get a jump start on the process. You can apply for student loans and then decline to accept the funds offered to you, so there isn't much downside to at least applying for them.
Regarding scholarship money, Duke doesn't offer much from what I understand. Scholarships are all merit based and are handled apart from financial aid (i.e. I believe they're handled by admissions and not the financial aid office). If you're awarded a scholarship, you'll be informed within two weeks. If you aren't offered a scholarship, you won't be told a thing. Based on posts to this forum and what I was told by the admissions office, I believe they typically call students awarded a scholarship to inform them of the committee's decision. Good luck.